Are there any men out there that appreciate a good women? I am starting to think that that species is extinct. One that holds doors pulls out chairs. One who listens, will rub your feet, be honest and not cheat. One who will accept you for you unconditionally regardless of your past. Are there any men out there that are not afraid to admit they have fallen in love and treat their women like a queen regardless of who they around and regardless of what people have to say. And another thing is it a bad thing to date someone one year younger? Is it that much of a difference mentally and emotionally? And should you give that person extra time to grow or not?
2006-08-22 12:38:05 · 19 answers · asked by STAR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And during all this foot rubbing and queen treating, what are you bringing to the table? Wanting a good man is one thing, expecting that you don't have to be equally good to him is selfish.
2006-08-22 12:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I'm sure there r ! And this cud b magic. But, b aware - such characteristics last only for s long s d courtship/romance still exists (in reality). Someone younger is not the problem, but it does depend on how old u r at this moment. If u r 19 (he's 18) - oh, oh, U MUST EXPECT u will both b still in the "morph" stage so ......... lots of changing to come, we all keep changing. A good book I can recomm. is PASSAGES
2006-08-22 12:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are men who still have chivalry.. me being one of them.. not only to my girlfriend.. but to my female friends as well.. i hold doors.. pull out chairs... and give them that special attention that makes woman feel special (the foot rubs and stuff are exclusive to my girlfriend only however :P ) I have been very faithful (we live an hour away) and it will actually be our 1 year anniversary soon... and i have told her countless times i love her and whatnot.. and this kind of connects with your second question.. but she is a year younger than me (im 18 about to go to college.. and shes 17 about to be a senior in HS... so it is not a bad thing to date someone younger... if you have that special connection with that person.. then age doesnt matter... its just a number .. hope this helps!
2006-08-22 12:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are good men out there. Just note they are not jocks with huge pockets full of money and sports cars. They are the fat, plain looking guys you ignore everyday.....
And one year, or even five years, is nothing in a relationship (did you think you had to be exactly the same age for some reason?)
2006-08-22 12:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is. I would like to think that I am one of those men. The question is, do you really want someone like that? It sounds appealing--even perfect--to say that you want someone nice and perfect and well-mannered, but it is really the excitement factor that draws us in. We are looking for someone of fresh fallen snow, when we will be happier with someone a little...dirtier.
However, if Prince Valiant is who you are looking for, try churches, university coffeehouses, and bookstores. They are chockful of them.
As far as the age thing is concerned, it only matters if it matters to you. If you fine with it, then it's fine. If it makes you feel good, do it.
I hope that helps.
2006-08-22 12:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by hotstepper2100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are men out there as you describe (and I like to count myself as one of them). However, the problem with men like us is that we are rarely noticed by women, and even more rarely appreciated.
Women never seem to appreciate the "nice" guys, preferring the bad boys, the dangerous ones, the hotties, the popular guys, the pretty guys, the flashy guys with the cars and clothes. Then when they are used by these guys and have a string of going-nowhere-relationships, they complain that "there are no men out there".
They are out there, you just have to notice them and pay attention to them when they speak to you and not cut them down immediately.
2006-08-22 12:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are PLENTY of good men out there. What i've learned is that just because one is a jerk doesn't mean they all are. Also, I dated the same "types" of guys over and over without realizing it. Try to date someone out of your normal type and who knows. =) Good luck!
2006-08-22 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by luvz2luv_ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, I thought every man appreciated their women...
Sorry to hear it's otherwise. Age of dating is dependant on your tastes and the person's level of maturity, honestly, a year in the case you list above sounds like a vast chasm of difference that has nothing to do with age, but maturity.
2006-08-22 12:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know there are a few out there. I just met one who is so perfect it scares me. He is all you said and more. Be patient. They are out there. I hope the one I found will stay around for a long time!
2006-08-22 12:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one, but I don't understand why you're looking for one.
I mean, experience has shown girl do not like nice guys.
They love assholes.
Seriously, treat a lady like trash and they swoon all over you.
So seriously... you're a guy right?
2006-08-22 12:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by vernes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋