I'm 5'9 and my boyfriend is 5'6. I model occasionally and I wear heels a lot, so at times I'm a lot taller than him. He's very cute, we have a lot in common and I love him very much. He says he feels self conscious when we're out together. What do I say to make him feel better?
2006-08-22 12:38:02 · 15 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
zeppelin rules!!!
im 5'6" and id feel weird being with a girl thats taller than me. there probably nothing a girl can say that would make me think differently. just reassure him that its no big deal.
2006-08-22 12:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What an idiot your boyfriend must be. You two have a RELATIONSHIP and he's worried about being self conscious? In other words, he's worried about HIMSELF? I'd find a new boyfriend. It sounds like he a Napoleon complex, and yes that is a real issue. Its when guys feel the need to be superior to women and they can't because the woman is taller. These type men tend to get violent over time. PLEASE look it up, it may save you some problems in the future.
2006-08-22 12:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's fashionable now to have a taller woman for a succesful man.... In one celebrity event all the guys had women taller than them!
Seriously, I'm in the same boat. Show him you love him, there's no need for words. When he sees this and know that it doesn't bother the woman he loves, so it darn well won't bother him!
2006-08-23 11:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by 675 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont wear heels, where balletflats or something flat. do alot of things together that involve sitting like (movies, goin out to eat, sittin in the grass just talking) try not to constantly remind him that your taller than he is, because after a while he will forget about it if your having fun together.
2006-08-22 12:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you two met and why you are with him. Whatever ideas got you together in the first place can be used to remind him that it wasn't about height when you met and it's not about height now.
2006-08-22 13:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Doctor Hand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that when your in heels, he is at the right height for pillow time.
Actually though, it is something he needs to work out for himself. Nothing you can say or do will help.
2006-08-22 12:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by mapleguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tackle it wit a sense of humor, put on your tallest heels and push a stepladder his way way with your best come over her look.
2006-08-22 16:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tom H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 5'7 and my boyfriend is 5'5 so i know it feels. just reaasure him that it doesnt matter what other people think. and he should not worry about it. as long as you love eachother is all that really matters,,,,and who says its suppose to be man taller than a woman??? he really shoudnt worry about it,,,,i bet yall look great together.
2006-08-22 12:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally a guy shorter than me is a turn off . but if you like him height shouldn't be an issue
2006-08-22 12:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by strawberrymoon86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you were 3ins taller the first you meet if he had no problem them
there should be no problem know.
2006-08-22 12:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by kelvin r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋