Ok let's say this guy you just have this feeling that he likes you. But he's so hot and cold. So maybe there's other girls he might also like. How do you make him like you more. So that maybe you can be at the top of the list? I mean I know you can't make someone like you. But if they already kind of do. How can you make them want you more? I always try to look my best so please don't say try to look better. Because I don't want him to just like me for that. Then there could always be someone prettier. I just want him to see me, who I am inside!!! But he's shy so kind of hard to talk to. So any opinions would be helpful!!! Thanks
2006-08-22 12:33:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's shy, he'll open up to you if you talk to him. Otherwise, he might just be stuck up. In that case, find a new guy.
2006-08-22 12:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation! Still be yourself and don't try any harder then what you already have. Because it could be a big waste of time and you could get more hurt. Don't close any more options. If you met a new guy, Great! Still hang out with your guy friends too. You don't have to let him know that either. Just still go out and fun. Don't let this over whelm you. And no, you can not make anyone like you more. Make yourself noticable but not too much.That would be just fake.....Good Luck!
2006-08-22 12:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mom08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad to see that you just want to be who you are, and understand, you can't make someone like you more.
With him being so shy, you will have to pick up the load when it comes to conversation. You need to drag him out of his shell. Find out what really interests him, what turns him on. Is it sports, music, movies, stamp collecting, whatever.
If you find something that works for him, study up on it. If you two find some common interest, then he will want to spend more time with you, talking about it.
If you spend more time with him, he'll get to know you better, and lose some of his shyness.
2006-08-22 12:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question has an impossible answer. The human mind is to complex to be able to figure out something like this unless you already truely know him. All you can do is try to get to know him better, hang out more & so forth. He would have to do the same in this too. :) goodluck
2006-08-22 12:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by CanadianPirate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. if you think he is intrested in you, it's because he saw something unique in you that stood apart from some one else. let your inner beauty show through and i guarantee you he will soon overcome his shyness. trust me he is looking for that special person, so you be different from other girls. a guy likes a girl to dress leaving a little to the imagination. if it is meant to be you he will let you know. good luck!!
2006-08-22 12:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make someone like you more by liking yourself more. If you take care of yourself he will respect you and admire you. If that isn't enough for you then you should really start working on your self esteem.
2006-08-22 12:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by TMAC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You have to be yourself. Either someone likes you or they don't. You can never make anyone care for you more or less.
2006-08-22 12:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be his friend, as long as you can, and as well as you can
be there for him, and hint that you like him, but that it's ok if he decides later that he likes you too
goodluck
2006-08-22 12:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋