And no, I don't mean there's four of us in the bed.
2006-08-22 12:31:34 · 43 answers · asked by sparky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Things have got very complicated. I've had to set up a speadsheet to keep of it all.
2006-08-22 12:34:51 · update #1
I don't want to give the impression I'm a bastard. I'm not. I'm searching for my soul mate. I just can't decide which one of them it is yet.
2006-08-22 12:37:44 · update #2
As my grandmother told me you are not married don't let anyone hold you down. There maybe a slight shadiness to your approach if the girls do not know about each other. I would tell them because if you got enough game to pull them you have enough to keep them. My only concern is that you will not have enough time for all of them and it will end up been a job as you delevelop their likes and dislikes into your life. If you are young go for it you only live once!
2006-08-22 12:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily wrong but that type of arrangement can cause more trouble than it's worth. If there were no promises of exclusivity as far as you're concerned then I'd say you're in the clear as far as being wrong. However, In my opinion it's foolish to date more than one person @ a time because of all the potential for drama and chaos.
2006-08-22 12:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Bit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bit on the dodgy side. I hope all the women would be aware of the situation. And if sexual relations are involved that suitable protection is being used by all partners. Seems like a fair arrangement only under agreed circumstances.
2006-08-22 14:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by mairimac158 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are lying to them all, and they aren't aware of eachother, then it probably isn't all that constructive. Try telling them that you are dating other people. As long as there isn't sex involved I doubt most women would see it as unreasonable.
If you are intimate with somebody, it is probably advisable for you to be mutually exclusive unless your partner agrees to something more open. Honesty is the key here. To have true love you have to love truth. Even if you are only seeking casual relationship- you can't even be just friends or a casual sex partner with somebody unless you are honest and have respect on both sides. Anything else usually ends in upset to both yourself and others.
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2006-08-22 22:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say Date, is that all it is ? Dinner and movie ? If your three dates are more then that, then DON"T DO THAT . Someone is gonna get burned or even more then that. Your acting like a Dog.
2006-08-22 12:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is entirely nothing wrong with dating 10 women. It's only dating. You don't give your self away with every women you date do you? If you do it is "not"dating.
2006-08-22 12:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong to date three women simultaneously.
2006-08-22 13:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Whizkidonboard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not as long as you're one of the 3 men she's dating!
2006-08-22 12:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd see if you can arrange the four in a bed. Sounds good to me.
2006-08-22 13:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Robin H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok fist it all depends on the perspective.
1 if ther is no serius relationship whit any of them (ok)
2 if you are married (drop what you are doeing)
3 tell all of them maybe they are doing the same is ther is no feelings among you then you are just friends and enjoy.
2006-08-22 12:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by roao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋