Do you think?

Question

God will punish ? the reason why I asked is because 3 this year on thanks giving day I was raped by ex boyfriend of mine..i still dont remember much of it but the blood that all..No i didnt go the police about it and i was still a virgin at the time.. Im just to ashmed of it.. i see right now he married and has a little girl..thanks

I mean my ex boyfriend.. do you think he will be punished for what he did to me..

Answer 1

no he doesnt punish

Answer 2

Yes God punishes only if you go against HIS will. God never let Moses see the Promise Land because Moses disobeyed him.

But in your case...I first want to say I am sorry for your tribulation - no girl should be ever be violated in such a horrible way. However, you should've gone to the police...he should've paid a price. Now it's too late. It's more of a "she said he said".

But make no mistake God hears your cries...he knows the misery you are going through. Do I think that God will somehow punish your ex-boyfriend for this crime?...absolutely without a doubt. Your ex might've asked for forgiveness...but he also has to ask for your forgiveness as well. Until that, God knows he is not contrite.

God works in mysterious ways. But right now you must ask God to take away your sorrows and your shamefulness - only he can do that. Be strong and he will help you live a full life.

I won't talk about it...but years ago I too was a victim of something horrible. I prayed to God...and I know...deep down in my heart...he helped me overcome my problem.

Best wishes and may God hold you in his grip.

Answer 3

I am really sorry to hear this sad story of yours.
I think your ex-boyfriend will be punished in some way and not only that: believe me, in some kind of a way, he is already punished. Do you think that such an idiot can really enjoy his life? No, not because of feeling guilty. Honey, he is not smart enough for such a thing.
I understood that you meant to ask if he would be punished, not you. But anyway, I see that you were ashamed because of the thing that happened. And it seems you are still ashamed. But, dear, keep in mind that HE IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE ASHAMED, NOT YOU. For that reason I suggest you to go and talk to some psychologist about that. They are professionals who keep secrets and it may help you a lot. You should do that in order to make sure that you will completely get over it and that you will enjoy your life (sex life, too).
Wish you all the best and many more precious moments!

Answer 4

Punish who? You- no. The ex- yes.
Even when we ask for forgiveness and receive it, there are still consequences that arise.
Now he has a little girl. I wonder if he ever thinks about how he would feel if she were raped?
The past is exactly that- the past. Nothing can be changed.
Do not look back- find peace with the past.

Answer 5

I think your ex will get punished somehow by God or karma or whatever you want to believe in. At this point you can still go to the police or better yet go to his current wife and tell her what he did to you and then watch his life fall apart!

I don't know if you feel like you're strong enough to do that to yourself though, since you'll have to let people know what's happened to you. I suggest you go to the police and have some closure because this ordeal might haunt you for the rest of your life and believe me I know!

Answer 6

I am sorry about your story.

Yes, God does "punish" in that no one gets away with anything. You may never know when and why the punishment comes but it will come.

Do not be ashamed as a crime was committed against you. It may be difficult for you at times but there is a god that loves you and what happened does not have any effect on your value to him or how he loves you, or your value to society.

email me anytime you want to talk. An old girlfriend of mine was assaulted in some way as a child (she never told me particulars) but it affected our relationship because she felt she was less of a person and I told her it was just the opposite. That was over thirty years ago and I still know her...she is married but I am there for her when she needs it.

Answer 7

No God wont punish him - its your job. You should have turned him in and gotten him punished to the full extent of the law. If God was so concerned, do you think he would have given him a wife and child? Obviously, God doesnt exist, if he allowed you to be brutally raped and this bastard pig to get away with it.

I am so sorrry my fellow man can be so crude. I hope for you the best.

Answer 8

Yes, God will punish you if you intentionally go against Him. In your case, it seems you did nothing intentional or wrong. However, if you were wondering about going to the police, you probably still can. There is no time limit for bringing someone up on murder charges, but I'm not sure if there is a time limit or not for sexual assault.

Do you want to involve the criminal justice system now? Your case against him has been weakened because of the length of time that has passed. Ultimately, it is your choice. I hope you come to a decision that will bring you peace and closure.

Answer 9

i'm not sure really, i think that it's unfair that that happened to you and i wish i could say something to make you feel better. It not only upsets me that he did that to you, but now that he has a daughter. All i can say, is that god punished that little girl, to have a father like that ( which i can relate to) is a horrible thing, but just know that those circumstances, like what happened to the both of us, is what makes us stronger, what makes us who we are today. One day when you have a daughter, like i do, you'll do anything in your power to make her safe, and for that, god will not punish you, he will reward you with the strength to wake up everyday and smile! I hope you feel better, and just remember, its not your fault!

Answer 10

Er, it looks as though a couple of respondents think that you're asking if god will punish _you_.

PLEASE tell me that's not what you were asking. If your religious beliefs have you wondering if you will be punished for being a rape victim, you definitely need to get a better set of religious beliefs, and get yourself away from the people who think that way, no matter who they are.

I assume you meant to ask if the ex-boyfriend will be punished, right?

Answer 11

He will be judged by God. Whether or not that is with punishment, only God knows. He could live for another hundred years before facing judgement, but that judgement will last forever. Forever.

I imagine that it's hard to see that this man now has what appears to be a good life, even after harming you. Jesus Christ teaches us to pray for those who mistreat you. The bad has already happened - rather than letting that ruin your life, I suggest that you turn to the good - to Jesus Christ. Through Jesus is life forever. Forever.