I recently decided to take a break from all my friends so I contacted each one telling them not to try and contact me by phone, text or email, since I want to be alone and figure out my life and get it moving in that direction. Note: All of my friends are adults and all we do is drink. So all my friends agreed to what I asked, most asked why and after I explained they agreed. Except for one, this woman that I only went out on one date with and had fun with doesn't understand. She thinks that I am trying to get a reaction out of her and that because we haven't seen each other in over three weeks, she is the reason that I am doing this. I told her that I just want to be left alone but she insists that she is the issue. I just want to move on with my life and she didn't seem like she wanted anything to do with me since we haven't seen or spoken in quite a while. Now she is all concerned and when I ask her why she doesn't give me an answer.. What is up? Why is she acting this way??
2006-08-22 11:59:23 · 13 answers · asked by tbd2_2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like you two had that close of a relationship to begin with. Sounds like she is having a panic attack, thinking she will never see you again, but she is calling the shots and breaking up with you. So you can't break up with her, sounds a bit crazy,yes.
2006-08-22 12:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 10:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you contact her telling her not to contact you if she hadn't in months? That does sound like you were just trying to get a reaction. I know you probably weren't, but it does sound suspicious so I kind of understand. She probably just thinks you wanted attention or something, just sincerely tell her it isn't about her, you are sorry you talked to her about it, and that that's the end.
2006-08-22 12:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are those personalities which are in need of being a rescuer. Always looking for someone with problems bigger than their own. To offer help makes them feel that their life is superior to the one that they are saving.
2006-08-22 12:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all that your friends do is drink, please accept my congratulations on leaving them
Not everybody drinks, so you will be able to find new friends.
Don't worry about this woman; just ignore her.
When I quit drinking, guess how many of my "friends" called to see if I was O.K. Not a single one did, and that was years ago.
Almost all of them are dead now.
2006-08-22 12:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to do what you have to do.Go and take your time by your self. If you only went on one date then why bother letting her BS get to you. She is only doing this because she is a woman. Get on with life, don't worry about what her problem is. Forget about her period.
2006-08-22 12:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obsessed. She thinks that everything you do revolves around her. Tell her to kick rocks or get a grip and realize that men need their own time to do their thing. Tell her that she's not that important. Period.
2006-08-22 12:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's blaming herself. Just ignore her emails, phone calls, etc....and she will get the message.
2006-08-22 12:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to be the center of attention
2006-08-22 12:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU want to get away, why are u constantly calling HER again? Just ignore her & do what u have to do!!
2006-08-22 12:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋