She is everything. I mean you have no idea how much i love her. And I am not too young, love happens any age?

Question

This girl means the world to me, it's so hard to let her go. Please give me and honest answer, thanks.?
She's 13, im 15. She used to be all over me, well people started talkin about it, I kinda rushed her, and just different things happend, and now she seems she dont like me at all. She told her friends she has no feelings for me at all. But she told her mom that she is just scared, and I know her mom wouldnt lie to me. Her mom also said that if I really really like somone else, then i should go for it. But if I really really like her daughter, than i should be patient. I mean we barely barely even talk anymore, whats the deal?


I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??

Answer 1

Sweetie, love is unfair at any age. First, if it's meant to be then it will be. Yes, you are young, but not to young to love. This is probably your first love. I had my first love at 17 but looking back now, it wasn't real love but puppy love. My daughter on the other hand was about 15 when she started dating her first love and it lasted over four years...on and off. They are still friends. Keep in mind, she is two years younger than you. That doesn't seem like much I know, but she is still a young lady. She may be scared out of her mind because at 13 your body is feeling different...your insides are feeling different and you are trying to go from girl to woman. I don't know how it is for boys...but girls...it can be nerve wrecking!! You should be her friend...as much of one as she will allow you to be. You should keep your mind and heart open not be so determined to have her and not allow it to control you. That could become scarey to her also and could hurt you in the long run.

Keep in mind, that you will have other loves in your life because that part of your life is just beginning. But, also know that years from now if not sooner you two may be together. Whatever happens just cherish the fact that you were able to love her regardless of how long and cherish the friendship.

Good luck sweetie. Even though it feels like it, it's not the end of the world.

Answer 2

My mom used to play middleman between guys and me, guys and my sister. She wanted us to be liked and not have people mad at us for hurting their feelings and saying no. It's not nice when moms do that though coz it leads guys on and causes them to feel desperate. Do you feel desperate? I can tell you really are being honest. To tell the truth, it kind of worries me for you, coz you're so earnestly serious.... I think you're making yourself very anxious over a girl who might completely change who she is in the next few years.

You ask what you should do, and I think you've answered your own question without realizing it.

Here are the facts you laid out:

She used to be with you till something happened when you rushed her, then it was over.

She told her friends she doesn't feel you.

She told her mom she's scared.

She barely talks to you anymore.

She seems to have lost her feelings for you.

There is nothing you can do now. You'll have to move on. There is no getting back a person. If you love someone, let them go. Sometimes these things happen, but you know what? You'll love again. Just give the girl some space and leave her family alone too. Maybe things will change, but in the meantime, find something else to focus your energy on. You'll be in college or working in a couple years; could begin volunteering or working on getting a driver's license? That'd be cool. Girls like that.

Answer 3

It's rare for someone to find the person of their dreams at such an early age. That doesn't mean it can't happen. Unfortunately, in this case, only one person can answer your question: YOU. You have some very serious soul-searching to do. Make certain you are SURE before you go any farther.

And then...

Well, she's 13. Lots of strange and interesting things are happening at 13. She probably doesn't know what she wants. Your best bet in this situation is patience. If you really are the one for her, she'll come back. Don't pressure her, just be there. Be her friend. Though I seriously doubt that you have found your one and only, you are still the only person who can answer that question. Stay around, don't pressure her, wait a while. In a serious relationship, you need more than love. More than desire, physical or emotional. You need it all.

A couple need to be everything: Lovers, best friends, confidants, trustworthy allies, dependants, leaders. supporters, fans, and more.

I'd advise you to wait until you're both older. If it's true, you'll find your ways to each other. Be prepared. Young girls and boys tend to *explore* a bit before they find what they really want, and many people never find that one special person. Patience, padawan.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

you are young but I do understand how you feel, me and my fiance were together since I was 15 years old. Maybe give her a little time and then talk to her, tell her you love her and still willing to be her friend, maybe she'll change her mind. Try talking to her friends too so they know how you feel about her. She'll come along, trust me it sounds like you are her first love and her first love. Shouldnt give that away. Good luck :-)

Answer 6

Try romance Romeo, be nice to her, but do not stalk her, say nice things, and remind her why she liked you, but dont over do it, you may just scare her. almost pretend like you dont care about her. its hard as hell, but it may work...just dont over do it