ok and i called her a ***** always so yeah in alot of trouble and shes really mad.
2006-08-22 11:55:50 · 15 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her your sorry, and try not to call her that . But do something sweet like flowers, make her a romanic dinner with canddles , and romance music. Or just talk to her. Ask her what you can do to make it up to her.
2006-08-22 11:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... in order to make up with her, you should tell her how sorry you are. You can do this three ways:
1) mail a letter(ya it may be old fashioned but she'll appreciate it that you took the time to actually write a letter of forgiveness. Plus, it will get her out of her bad mood because who doesn't like getting mail?!)
2) talk to her over the phone (this may be problem if she has caller ID and knows its you calling. She may not pick up. If this happens, resort to option #1 or #3)
3) ask her to meet you at some place you guys LOVE to go. Speak to her face to face. It may be hard and a little scary but you will get a posotive out come.
Here are some tips:
1) dont ask a friend to apologize to her for you. That is the WORST way to do it. If she's really upset, she'll want YOU to do the apologizing.
2) Make sure to tell her you understand why she's mad and that you will try very hard to stop.
3) just be understanding and don't get aggrevated if she dosnt accept your apology the first time. Things like this may take a couple of days.
4) dont try less than once. if you try calling her and she hangs up on you, wait a couple of minutes and then call her back. She'll know that you are really seriouse in getting back together.
Don't call her back immedietly after she hangs up because that will just get her annoyed.. give her some time to rethink things over and to cool down.
I hope I've helped.
Good luck!
2006-08-22 19:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by laylay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first rule of apologising ....mean it!!! Then clear the air about the fight. Also go armed with something she likes...flowers, chocolates and a sorry card !! But if she says she needs some time to cool down give it to her and then call her again in a few days. Dont bug her and get into more trouble!!! goodluck!!
2006-08-22 19:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by nice_b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to show her how sorry you are is to explain to her honestly why you felt like you had to call her a *****.
Discuss this.
Most couple clam up, don't communicate with each other, and as a result problems and misunderstandings molder, and grow, and before you know it you are slamming your fist on the table and yelling something like "You *****"
Treat her to a honest discussion :)
2006-08-22 19:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Matilda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her Flowers... 3 dozens of roses. Or a nice gift.
Kiss her & give her chocolate. Chocolate stimulates the part of brain which is the same as sex and other pleasures so it should make her happy.
2006-08-22 18:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by kujiiiro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to a nice place give her a rose and talk about that day and tell her by looking straight into her eyes and say i am really sorry.
2006-08-22 19:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by breast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on all 4 and beg, no just kidding be truthfully speak from your heart and some roses will come in handy don't forget a nice diner and never open your trap like that again( think before you speak )
and most important keep your word of never doing something like that again.
2006-08-22 19:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by roao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize sincerely. Take her a small gift--nothing too big though otherwise it's just bribery. Maybe you could explain waht she did that bothered you so much and why it bothered you--the real reasons. Don't excuse it, just explain. She'll appreciate knowing why. Good luck!
2006-08-22 19:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some flowers and some nice ones at that. See if you can find some pretty colored floral bouquet. It would work for me.
2006-08-22 18:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not really sorry, admit it. i'm surprised that she even stayed with you this long. you think that women are only here for sex, cleaning, and taking care of children, so until you change your attitude about women, i find it hard to believe that you're really sorry.
i don't know if your past question was about you, but if you really cared for her, you wouldn' have cheated on her. does she know?
2006-08-23 05:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by and so it begins... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋