im 15 and i really wanna have sex. my bf is older than me but he never had sex either. he wants to but hes never ever pressured me to. i really like him and might even love him but i dno wat to do
2006-08-22 11:49:04 · 41 answers · asked by cicibaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should talk to him about this matter. He obviously like you and a guy that doesnt pressure this stuff!!!!!
Talk about it to him... and find when its the right time for the both of you!!!
Theres no need to rush it.... is there?
Good luck!!!
2006-08-22 12:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on u it is ur decision to do so if u choose however it isn't going to be as good as u think it is, it really is best to wait until u know u love them, besides their are alot of risks that come with sex, and i mean things worse then pregnancy like stds u can never get rid and so on , but let me ask u anthor qestion why do think u need to have sex anyway, u really are young , and chances are if u are not sure that u want have sex , then don't u can only give ur virginity away once make sure it's with somone u are prepared to stay w/ for a long long time, and make sure they feel the same way, chances are if he is a real virgin he may be thinking the same thing u are so u guys should talk , if u find out u do want him to be ur first then use protection girl protect yourself and your partner, be care full and good luck
2006-08-22 11:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by rachel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not too young if you've decided you want it. I was 14 (with a mature man twice my age, and it and he was WONDERFUL). But I had learned all about love-making from sex-instruction magazines and books, and also just did mutual masturbation and oral for a year before I had intercourse - safely! I suggest you and your bf do the same, if only to learn about your bodies and what pleases you. That way
you'll better prepare for making love, and not just f*ck*ng.
2006-08-22 12:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Marie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are too young to have sex. I got serious with a boyfriend around that age and ended up pregnant. Had my first child at age 16. At that age you aren't ready to that kind of responsibilty. You still like sleeping in and going out with friends, but a baby takes all that away. It isn't worth it at that age. Just wait.
2006-08-22 11:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You are deffinately too young for Sex. Its a very important decision and its something that you cannot give back if you dont like it. Wait a little longer and think about it. It will be worth the wait.
2006-08-23 04:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Khostile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you're ready, but only you know for sure. just be careful that you don't get hurt.
make sure your boyfriend is crazy about you. if you've been going out for at least a few months and he's not pressuring you, that's good. if he does nice little things for you, that' great. if your mom likes him, that's good. if he spends as much time as he can with you, good.
also, make sure you don't get pregnant. the best option would be talking to your mom, but that could be difficult, so look at the options for preventing pregnancy here:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/files/portal/medicalinfo/birthcontrol/pub-bc-choices-teens.xml
and find a clinic to get the pill or condoms (which are also available at a lot of grocery stores and convenience stores) here:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/healthservices/findhealthcenter/
of course it would be wonderful if we could all wait until we were married, but the fact is, most people don't:
http://feministing.com/archives/005536.html
if you're ready now, just be careful!
2006-08-22 13:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of reasons to wait to have sex. Each person has his or her own, and what's important to one person may not be to another. The main point is for you to understand your reasons not to have sex. This website isn't meant to be a substitute for your parent, grandparent or other adult you trust enough to talk with about topics like sex. It's important to talk with an adult about delaying sex.
Reasons kids your age are deciding not to have sex
No one pressures me
It's too risky
Self-respect
My parents would kill me
I'm waiting to get married
It affects the rest of my life
I am not ready
I'm too young
I make my own decisions
It's too much commitment
I don't love him/her that much
She/he deserves more than that
It's just not OK
There's just too much at stake
I'm afraid of what could happen to me – I could get an STD or get pregnant
There's a time for it in my life and now isn't it
I don't need any extra complications in my life right now
It's about my religion
There's no way I can take care of a baby at this age
2006-08-22 11:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask if you're too young...then you are too immature for sex. Leave sex for the adults...because sex truly is the adult playground. So if you don't know the rules, then get off the playground.
From the Great and Powerful Poppet
2006-08-22 11:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is older? And I understand wanting to, but sex is a big deal. Besides the physical risks of diseases and pregnancy, it can also be difficult emotionally. I won't say you should, but one sign you definitely shouldn't is if you can't talk to your boyfriend about sex, like birth control and whatnot, without being embarassed and all giggly.
2006-08-22 11:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is something you and the guy need to talk about. Don't just do it because you are curious, and everybody else has done it. DO it when it feels right. If you do it when you are not emotionally ready you could have a menatl breakdown. You have to be ready for sex. It is more than something physical. If you do decide to do it, please use protection.
2006-08-22 11:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time for sex when you are older.A lot of responsibilities and risks are involved in sex and 15 is too young for those.
2006-08-22 12:17:19 · answer #11 · answered by hungerforknowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋