I have had this BF for 6 years. Way to long. Anyway it seams like our spark is gone.... How do I break up with him? I am a softy and he just sent me a really sweet email, but I am not going to take this ANYMORE! He has cheated 3 times (in a row) And didn't tell me. We live in separate states, he lives in Arkansas and I won't tell ya where I live.... My best friend had to tell me about him cheating on me! I mean how low is that???? By the way he played the field with all of MY friends! So what do I do?????
2006-08-22 11:37:33 · 28 answers · asked by SoNgBiRd.........! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with him . . . tell him that it is over.
If he ask why . . . tell him the truth.
1. We live in separate states
2. You can't keep your d!ck in your pants
3. You screwed some of my friends
4. Plus I found someone better and bigger than you (I know . . . it is probably a lie . . . but he doesn't know that).
Then block his IM ID, his e-mail address and his phone number or get caller ID and don't answer the phone when he calls (if he calls).
2006-08-29 06:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stayed with a guy for 6 years that cheated on you. Are you crazy! You should have cut that zero along time ago. He cheated three times what makes you think he won't cheat again.
He is basically playing you cause he knows that he can. He knows that you will always take him back.
Yeah he sends you those sweet e-mails to throw you off track.
You don't even need to ask that simple question you know what to do. You need to dump him Dump that lump. You can do so much better.
2006-08-29 16:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady the fact that he cheated is reason enough not to be involved in a relationship. I dated someone and they cheated on me. So I dumbed them. The funny thing, is the person they cheated with was a friend of a friend. That person happen to be at the house when I arrived; and I found that that my lover was lousy in bed from them. I always knew it, but love him anyways. Drop the cheater and find someone special.
2006-08-22 11:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one, since you are apart. Just send him a paper letter. Without any anger or malice, and simply say you have decided to move on, thank you very much. Then don't answer his calls, and don't respond to his e-mails.
done
Don't say, "I hope we can be friends" if you can you will that simple.
Don't say I love you like a brother or any of that BS.
watch the "he's just not into you" episode of Sex and the City before writing the letter
2006-08-22 11:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by rehobothbeachgui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay hip hop girl this one is simple. All you need is a long cane stick and a good arm. beat the living crap out of him. He doesn't really care for you so don't hold back. he wont come back after that
2006-08-22 11:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Evasive tactics 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-08-22 11:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥JAMIE♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him hard cuz 1st he cheated 2 u live in different states that never works he mite even b cheating on u rite now and u dont even no
2006-08-22 11:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by pink_panther112594 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it's over. If he's hurt you in the past, you shouldn't feel too guilty returning the favor. If you aren't happy with someone, move on.
2006-08-22 11:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by steveo88x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he calls you have another guy answer the phone. Maybe have the other guy try to start a fight with him. i mean maybe you will at least get to see a good fight. Or just tell him to F*** off.
2006-08-22 11:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i wanted to end a relationship with a guy for good, i told him that i was seeing someone else. I really wasn't but i didnt know how else to really end the relationship
2006-08-22 11:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by mrossi330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋