I mean, there's so much stigma surrounding this position - 1) It's supposed to be, "grr, female empowering!" after years of "oppresive,boring missionary", and - supposedly- the orgasms are amazing.
But for me - very much the feminista - I find girl-on-top very unnerving. I feel like I don't know what I'm doing (should I push up and down {I hope not} or back and forth?), I'm afraid of things jiggling that shouldn't (and vice versa), and to be honest (and perhaps for the afforementioned reasons), the O's aren't that great.
Give me missionary anytime, throw my legs over their shoulders, and I'll call it a multi-O night. Am I strange? Old fashioned? An alien? Alone here?
2006-08-22 11:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all i do is just put my hands on his chest and kinda go in a circle and up and down sometimes i do it really hard because he likes it but you wont injoy if you dont like to do work but there are plenty of more ways to get multi o if you know what i mean have fun good luck
2006-08-22 11:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by vicki g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like being on bottom.. Being on top doesn't do that much for me. You have to do what makes you feel the best and not akward. You won't enjoy yourself if its akward.
2006-08-22 18:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women are like that, but with a bit of direction from the guy you should be having great OOOO's, but you gotta do whatever floats your boat
2006-08-22 18:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by hkfkgsdvfksa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like a women on top
i like watching her facial exspresions
she gets to control how deep how fast things should go
2006-08-22 18:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you. Being on top is way too awkward. If I'm on my back, I can let loose and really get into it.
2006-08-22 18:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women like it....they have the control of how deep, how fast, and they like the results better because of it.....you are not the only one
2006-08-22 18:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is good to try different things,not the same over and over,cus,the routine just breaks up the passion!i like that,why not!
2006-08-22 18:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by jose_valle76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If being on the bottom is your style, why change.
2006-08-22 18:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it with him sitting up partially... I don't like it too much when he is flat, but boy... put him sitting up with his bum on the edge of the couch and.... yeah...I'll work on that;)
2006-08-22 18:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by missy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right .. there is nothing to be worried about .
do what you feel like to do , and the way you feel like it to be done ..
2006-08-22 18:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by horras 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋