My Girlfriend And I Would Like To Experience Anal Sex. How Should We Go About Doing It?
2006-08-22 11:21:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The keys to successful anal sex are
1) Trust
2) Relaxation
3) Lubrication
Trust: She must trust you completely to listen to her and to move things along only when she is ready. She has to trust to you enough to give her self complete to the experience knowing that you will take good care of her.
Relaxation: Once she trusts you, she will be able to relax completely. She has to relax the inner and outer muscles of the anus. If she "clenches" even a little, it will be uncomfortable or even painful. It's up to you to watch and listen. You can help her relax with cunnilingus and using your fingers to let adjust to anal penetration.
Lubrication: Put the oil or other lotion is on the full length of your penis. That way, every square inch of your penis will slide smoothly through. And, put some in her as well.
2006-08-22 11:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Comfortable Anal
2016-12-12 11:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by emmit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try many different techniques. But it will almost always hurt the whole time. Really bad. once you try it and your gf sees how bad it hurts she won't, want to try it again. Or atleast I didn't. Its something somoe women enjoy and some it just hurts really bad.
2006-08-22 11:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay, lots of lubrication - try a finger first and then two - go slow
2006-08-22 11:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ensure she is totally relaxed and turned on and use plenty of lube.
2006-08-22 11:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of lube and go slow.
2006-08-22 11:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with separate rooms and work your way from there.
2006-08-22 11:23:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it save urself for marrige!!!!!!! unless ur gonna marry her then dont do it! y dont guys think about other things besides sex!! OMG its making me mad!
2006-08-22 11:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Shayla <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it to yourself instead, that ought to make it more comfortable for her.
2006-08-22 11:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by janine h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lube ~start small ~be easy~ :)
2006-08-22 11:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by jenn03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋