Guys help me out here please. I need tips cause I am extremely shy around guys, dunno why though, cause I am attractive, and I love flirting!!
2006-08-22 11:20:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Open communication is best here. It builds trust.
Best thing that guys want to talk about are questions relating to people. It can be anything. We are always trying to figure out what makes people tick. Women already know all of the answers, so you can really make head points here with your answers and maturity.
We all love a good flirt., especially when the tease is done right.
2006-08-22 11:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do not need to force a conversation. Just talk about something current that you are interested in. Usually the guys are just going to be glad you are nice and down to earth enough to start a conversation. The old saying "be yourself" is very true, just don't over think yourself and have some fun. If you are enjoying yourself then that will show thru in your personality and everything else will take care of itself.
2006-08-22 18:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by cdfrx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. Try complimenting and asking a question. Kinda like "That's a nice shirt. Where did you buy it?" That usually kicks it off. Then you can start branching off ideas during the conversation. Like "I like guys that wear blue" or something like that. Flirting is just too fun.
2006-08-22 18:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by mikeyclipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he does for fun. Just stop being shy. Who cares what guys think about you, guys need friends too. Besides, even the coolest best looking guys are really just idiots in nice clothing. I promise.
2006-08-22 18:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im like you im very shy too when i asked they told me to start a random conversation with complete strangers but seeing that your so beautiful they would want to start a conversation eith you.
2006-08-22 18:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey wuzz gudd wuts ya name (if u dnt kno?) then introduce ya self (if he doesnt kno?) wut type of music ya in2? u have a job? wut do u do on ya free time? have an particular hobby ur really in2? play any sports? close with ur family? were r u 4m? r u latino, black, indian, white, azn or euapean? if u could go any were in the world were would u go and y? if u had 3 wishes wut would they b (but ya cnt wish 4 more than 3 wishes!) well these r gudd starters u should putcha own scense in it n see wut happens just play around n tease him, guys have fun when u do so... well hope it works gudd luck!
2006-08-22 18:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Gabriela M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im not that good either when it comes to start conversations, but u can always ask hows ur day or just say hey, whats ur name, where u from, etc
2006-08-22 18:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by yankeepilot13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you male or female? The way you posed your question is a bit androgynous.
2006-08-22 18:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't freaking hide what you want to say, we HATE (at least I do) when we can't figure out what you really mean.
2006-08-22 18:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by dukezone9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just comment on the situation, say hey man nice tie, or hey grandpa nice cane, or hey man nice cash register. he'll say thanks and if he returns the compliment prepare your vagina for cinco de mayo
2006-08-22 18:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by maguathehearteater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋