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Question

hey parents if your 16 or 17 year old daughter get pregnant what will u do : kick her out or give her support ???? . if u will say that u want to kick her out , i have to say u really dont love your kids and bad parents!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

MY OLDEST DAUGHTER GOT PREGNANT AT THE AGE OF 17 I SUPPORTED HER ALL THE WAY ALTHOUGH SHE WANTED TO GET MARRIED AT 17 I TOLD HER THAT SHE WOULD HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL SHE WAS 18 BECAUSE I WASN'T GOING TO SIGN PAPERS FOR HER TO GET MARRIED TO A GUY THAT WAS NEVER AROUND TO SUPPORT MY DAUGHTER NOW SHE IS 26 WITH 3 CHILDREN AND SHE STILL THANKS ME TO THIS DAY FOR NOT SIGNING THE PAPERS FOR HER TO GET MARRIED. NOW IF THE FATHER WAS IN LOVE WITH HER AND THE BABY AND ALSO SUPPORTED HER THEN I WOULD OF SIGNED THE PAPERS BUT I KNEW IT WASN'T GOING TO WORK OUT FOR HER AND IT DIDN'T.PARENTS HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR CHILDREN IN WHAT THEY DO IN THEIR LIFE SOMETIMES THEY MAKE BAD CHOICES BUT THEY SHOULD LEARN FROM THEM BUT NO MATTER WHAT PARENTS SHOULD ALWAYS BE THERE FOR THEIR CHILDREN.

Answer 2

I am a mom and I would support my daughter if she was to get pregnant. I have two daughters. Obviously I wouldn't be happy that it happened but she is still my daughter. As for the parents that kicked their daughters out, I don't think they are bad parents, I think that maybe they just don't know how else to handle the situation and maybe when they kicked her out it was out of anger not because they didn't love their daughter. It's a difficult thing to handle, their baby is going to have a baby, some parents just get lost in their own emotions. And for the record teenagers shouldn't be having sex, they should be working on bettering themselves academically.

Answer 3

Well I would expect my daughters to take care of their own responsibilities. I became pregnant at 17. I didn't have to move out of my dad's house, I CHOSE to. It isn't right for grandparents to raise their grand kids. I still managed to graduate high school with a 4.0. I already have 10 college credits and I'm going back to college next year. The thing is, I've done it without welfare or help from my parents. My daughter's father and I are still together and are getting married sometime next year. I would still support my daughter but I'd do it from a distance. Bringing a child into the world is a chance to be responsible. If I was able to do it, why can't my daughters?

Answer 4

My daughter became pregnant at 16 and had her daughter at 17. I never considered kicking her out. I backed her 100 percent. Sounds like you know someone who is 16 or 17, pregnant and now homeless. Could it be that her parents reacted out of shock? Give them a chance to come around. Now isn't the time for judgment calls. Hope it all works out for the young mother.

Answer 5

Well first off let me say this.

She is 6 months old but, IF she came to me and said MOM I"M PREGNANT I would have to take time and not implode on her. Then I would help her talk to her father who would then explode on her...but kick her out. Never. But she will have to take responsiblity and abortion will not be an option. She will get a job, The SOB that got her pregnant will pull his weight also. She will finish school and I would help her to a point. I had to talk responsiblty and so will she.


I also will add this...If my son (he's 7) comes home and says mom so and so is pregnat he will be expected to pay child support and support the mother through the pregnancy, and raising the child. He too will stay in my house. If her parents kicked her out she will stay with me. Bottom line, no questions asked.

Answer 6

I would be upset for her, because her life will change so drastically at a young age. Kick her out of the house? Then who would she have? The only people in your life that one should truly be able to trust are their parents. That unconditional love thing going on there... NO.. I would stand beside her the whole way, she would need me now more than ever. It would not be a choice, or decision to be made. She's my girl...

Answer 7

Do you have a pregnant daughter? Kickin' her out doesn't mean the parent is bad. What kind of daughter is she? Does she go to school? What kind of peers does she associate herself with? Is she respectful to her parents? I do believe in forgiveness and second chances.
Sure most parents are hurt, but they do support their children no matter what they encounter. I've never personally known anyone to kick out a pregnant child.
As for me, I raised my daughter to be God fearing. She was very knowledgeable about sex, relationships, protection, abstinence, etc. We must educate our children as well as love them. She was 27 and married when she had her first child

Answer 8

she need to get an abortion. obviously this girl has no sense of responsibility. she would have to quit school and work because her parents arent about to take care of this baby, they have to work too.

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she needs to know what life is like, let her ahve the baby and rop out of school and she'll she what its like in the real world. i wouldnt kick her out but she would have to take care of the baby and get a job. she would get very little help from me if i was her parent. and i would kick the *** of the guy that did it and convinced her dumb *** to have sex without a condom and had her really think pullin before you *** is a for sure way of not getting pregnant.

Answer 9

well I think it depends on the girl. if it was truly a mistake then I wouldn't kick my daughter out. but if it was a ongoing problem, like I was trying to get her on birth control but she refused it, or it wasn't her first time being pregnant, then yes I would kick her out.

Answer 10

I wouldn't kick her out, but i would make sure she took responsibility for what she done. I would not hand everything she needed to her on a silver platter, that's for sure. I would make her take parenting classes and if healthily possible, get a job.