how can i tell if a girl is lying about being pregnant?

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thiis woman told my boyfriend she is pregnant by him when he broke up with her. he said they had sex in feb. she said she is five months which does not add up. he asked if she had been to the doctors she said yes. her son who is 15 stated everytime she said she went to the doctors she didnt. she said she mailed the pics of the baby to him. yeah right. and when he went over there she said she loaned the pictures out..right. and when he said where is your vitamins she said oh i cant find them right now. she is really skinny and has not gained a pound. she wont let him go to the doctors with her, but says he would not be around if she wasnt pregnant. when they were together they could not have kids. all of a sudden she is pregnant. i just need some light shed on the subject. she was suppose to show some paper work today, but wont answer the phone..waz up wit dat..

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Answer 1

i dont believe it... if she is 5 months shes showing... and if shes not she might be having a boy (it sometimes takes for the 7 month for a boy to start showing) but if she is that far along you should ask her whats shes having... this is something sneaky but hell give it a try... try to find out what doctor shes going to (supposively) and call in (like your her) and ask her when is her next OB appointment... and if they say that she doesnt have one... you caught her right there... and if she does then i mean im sorrie... or just randomly ask her how many WEEKS she is... most pregnant women know how far along they are by weeks and days, well at least i do, or maybe when talking to her about something totally differnent ask her when is her due date... try to catch her in a lie somehow... if you need anymore sneaky lil tips e-mail me...

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Answer 2

That's an easy one, hon. Play the part of the "good guy" and tell her that, if she's pregnant with your baby, you want to go with her to the doctor to make sure everything's okay. If she refuses to let you go, or keeps making excuses about why she can't... Well, you'll know something's going on, right? The great part is that you come across as being caring and supportive, just in case she is pregnant with your kid, rather than accusing her right away. :-) She won't start showing until around 20 weeks, most likely (that you can notice). But, it's different for everyone. Good luck!

Answer 3

Get a pregnancy test. If she is already small she may not sure till the last couple of months. My brothers ex is 5'1 and before pregnancy weighted 110. She only gained 22 lbs and started showing only the last couple of months. He thought she was lying the entire time but we all knew she was pregnant and she went to the dr and did everything she had too.

Answer 4

time will tell and you may have to wait.

what you dont' have to wait for is to figure out what in the world you are doing with a guy like this.

do you really want such complicated relationships? do you really want to be caught up with someone who may or may not be a father and that he finds this normal? that he can just sit around and wait to find out? a good dad would go be with that child, he'd try to find out if he really had a child rather than wonder/doubt. he wouldn't be with a woman who could possibly lie about it.

don't stay with this guy he's already shown he is not the father material and that is something that isn't going to change.... don't fool yourself into thinking "not with my child" you can do better, you can get a man who would not only plan a child but who would go to every appointment, and who would not have a brood of children who were possibly his.

best of luck.

ps... if this woman truly is pregnant, remember that this baby is a real person and doesn't deserve to be insulted or his/her mother insulted. this baby will have a lot to deal with. pray for this lady, she and her family will need it.

Answer 5

If she's really pregnant and miraculously not showing in her belly size at 5 months, it sounds like all you need to do is wait a little longer. Another month from now, if she's still not showing, there's absolutely no way she's pregnant. You can't be a reasonably-sized woman and NOT be showing at 6 months. Just doesn't happen.

Answer 6

Sounds like she is a liar. She is probably just wanting your man back and getting desperate. Thats pathetic. If she doesnt let him go along to the doctors office then most likely it is a fib. And every prego person on earth has tons of ultrasound pics to show off.. so her not having any is a big sign too.

Answer 7

Being she has a small body frame, she would most definatley be showing at 4 months. (larger women it can take up to 6 months sometimes to show) It sounds to me, and I'm sure you already know this, is she hasn't gotten over her ex yet and is doing whatever she can to hold on to him. Being mean to her will NOT get her to fess up to what she has done. Get your BF to call her and tell her "I really want to be in the baby's life. I called and made you a appointment for tommerow at 3:00, I'll be there at 2:20 to pick you up." If she stands him up...moveeee on with yall's life and forget her.

Answer 8

It doesn't add up at all. Sounds to me like she's lying. At five months, she should have some kind of bump. Can he go round and insist on seeing some kind of paperwork. If she is pregnant, she should have some notes or appointment card, scan pictures.
If she really was pregnant, surely she would be flaunting the evidence under his nose..........

Answer 9

Buy a pregnancy test and have her take it in front of you. Well maybe not right in front of you... but have her take it and then show it to you right then.
It does sound like she is lying. Maybe it would be better to stop giving her attention for this. She is obviously gaining something from this; it seems to be attention that she would otherwise not be getting.

Answer 10

If she doesnt start showing after like 4 or 5 months, shes probably lying.