I went to my boyfriends house after school && he was like your prude and I said no im not and he said why wont you do anything with me and I said we had dry sex the other Night && wev been going out for a week. and than he said I want to have sex tho.. and i said well im sorry. and he said something.. and I said well if you do that it will sound like you just want sex from me.. and He like froze and walked away. and I didnt mean it to come out that way at all and he got mad and when he was driving me home he didnt talk to me at all, and than i got out of the car and i went over to his window.. and he said give me a Kiss.. so i did and i said are you mad at me and he said beyond mad and I said im sorry i seriously didnt mean it to come out that way and than he was like "you have no ******* idea how much i love you and care for you, its unbelieable i never new someone could be this ******* in love and when you said that, you dont know how bad that hurt babe.. It hurt..." so..
2006-08-22 11:07:03 · 6 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know if he wants just sex from me, Or if he loves me..
dangit hes so frikin confusing..
2006-08-22 11:07:39 · update #1
He is trying to manipulate you to have sex before you're ready. Don't let him. If he truly cared for you he would respect your decision not to rush things. He also would not drop the F bomb when saying how true his feelings are. He can't love you after a week he doesn't know you.
2006-08-22 11:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you were right..What you did was the best thing to do at that point of time..If he really loves you grl then he should repect your thoughts n not be mad about the decision u make..He should support you for every thing..I'm a guy and I know how the guys think...I think he is just ther to have fun..cause when you love someone.. you stand by them and support them for every thing that makes them happy..you wait till the person feels comfortable to be with you on the same bed..Hey I think you need to look into your relationship cause You might hurt your self later..
I'm sure you will find better guys out ther who will love you for what you are and not because they can sleep with you..
2006-08-22 11:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Spacetod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been going out for a week? And yet he's already called you a prude? He's obviously only after the sex! Tell him you're not ready, and if he's not prepared to wait, he's not worth it. Get rid of him before you waste too much of your time!
2006-08-22 11:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by Eclipse24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When confused, suspect a lie. Your comment that it sounded like he just wanted to have sex with you sounds perfectly in tune with the conversation. Sounds awfully manipulative to me.
2006-08-22 11:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he really loves you then he will wait until you are ready. This guy sounds like a asshole. You should just break up with him.
2006-08-22 11:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he loves you he will wait untill you are really ready...
2006-08-22 11:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by jenn03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋