I didn't realize it wasn't mine until some a few days ago. My Girlfriend told me due to some test results that was performed on her and the baby. She said she wasn't sure if it was mine but was hoping it was so she didn't tell me. Well the father of this baby is black and that freaked me out. I'm not a racist or anything but I don't believe in interracial mixing. It's not fair to the child. I need advice on what to do. There is no way I can love this cross bread baby but I still love my girlfriend even though she crossed an ethnic barrier.
2006-08-22 11:02:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl didn't cheat. We met while we were both seeing other people. Hey, adults have sex and sometimes kids happend to save the moral crap for the Religious section. I'm not racist, I just don't want a black baby. How is that hard for anyone to understand. I bet a black man wouldn't want a white baby either. It's just the way the world is.
2006-08-22 11:07:35 · update #1
Ofcourse the color of the baby would matter. How in the hell could I go around with a little black kid calling me daddy. I'm not black and I'm not it's daddy. It's not fair to the kid. Not my problem to love the litte guy, I'm not it's maker. Half breed children are hated by both black and white families. It's just a fact. They don't fit in. It's not that I am racitst, it the fact that I am proud of my race. Nothing wrong about that. Blacks can be proud about being black, why can't I be proud of my heritage. Being White isn't a freaking sin.
2006-08-22 11:14:13 · update #2
OK, I am a Racist but what's even funnier is that I am also a Big Nasty Trucker http://www.postingupcrimes.com
2006-08-22 12:27:32 · update #3
IM DAMN PROUD TO BE WHITE! your right this kid isnt right! move on.
2006-08-22 11:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to leave. She cheated. That is what is wrong there, not the interracial mixing. You are racist. You should review you own writing after the 'interracial mixing' part.
You are not required to love the child if its not your. Your actually not required to love it if it is. The point is, you should leave because she cheated. I'm not certain that her motives were unprovoked. Your situation is sad, but your message is appalling. She may be better of without you..especially since chances are that if it were your child you may teach him/her your narrow minded thoughts.
By the way, some of the most beautiful people in the world are mixed. Such as Hallie Berry and Mariah Carrey...
2006-08-22 11:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are prejudiced!!!!
You cannot love the mother without the child. In order to love the mother you must love the child. They do go hand in hand. That is her family. If you have a problem with the baby now, you always will.
Do the right thing and let her go. You don't know what love is and she had a baby with someone else. She cheated on you and evidently doesn't love you and does believe in interracial mixing.
2006-08-22 11:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by DoUKnowJesus? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are times where there have been interracial blended families and the parents tok care of the other's kids.
To not want to take care of another man's baby is natural, but you seemed more offended that is was a mixed race child, than the fact that your wife my have cheated on you.
I have a female friend who has a son, and I am his godfather. I am his uncle and I love him like he was my own kid, and he loves me. Color is nothing, the child is innocent and wants only to be loved.
2006-08-22 17:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Benjamin W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off y would u call the baby cross bread that child wasnt asked to come in this world and obviously if ur girl cheated and got pregnant this is her own mistake if u love her and want to be with her then stay i mean having a interracial child isnt bad they are pretty to me and if u arent racist y would u say cross bread baby obviously ur girl liked some black cock
and this is from a black women
2006-08-22 11:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by 2 THICK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend and her baby deserve to be with a man who isn't a bigot.
It's not fair to you that she cheated on you. For that alone you should leave her.
But for the sake of the baby, please don't stick around and negatively affect his/her self image. The fact that you use terms like "cross bred" proves that you shouldn't be in this child's life. There is nothing wrong with interracial babies. Look at Halle Berry. She is probably the most beautiful woman in the world.
2006-08-22 11:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by loves2fly84095 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple...if you can love the baby then you need to leave her. Mom's & babies are a total package and if you can't handle one then you can't have the other. I'm not sure what the situation was that caused her to have sex with another man but if this is a serious relationship and she cheated that is one more point towards ending this relationship.
2006-08-22 11:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'I'm not a racist or anything but I don't believe in interracial mixing"
You ARE a racist... wake up. Anyway, leave this woman alone for the sake of the kid. We don't need any more people growing up feeling unloved because of the color of their skin. Let the kid grow up loving him or herself and being happy instead of learning racism from you and having your ignorance and hatred in their life. Peace.
2006-08-22 11:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Flyleaf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you now what even though the baby is black or any other color it shouldn't matter what the color of the baby u should just be there for your girl and helper with anything she needs and be there and support her if u really love her the only thing that's important is to be there for the person u love and that's that
2006-08-22 11:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by chucky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you assert you safeguard this female. have you ever heard of the expression " Love me, love my canine"? no person in this existence escapes without bags to hold. Do you somewhat love her?? Or have you ever in basic terms attatched your self to an perfect?? Her newborn would be a great component of her existence, in case you % no component of the newborn then you definately somewhat do no longer % to be with this female. Is she comming returned abode at every time or is she staying distant places? might you connect her if she asked you too? tell her you may now no longer help her. you're no longer doing her any favors. discover out how she feels approximately you at present and for pity's sake undergo in thoughts the newborn she has had no longer something to do with you.
2016-10-02 10:17:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Cant Love her Baby then you need to leave its not the Babys Fault You should be able to love the Child the same!
2006-08-22 11:05:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋