Ughh. Ok. So like..I have this wierd feeling in my stomach everytime I see this guyy..he's funny, smart, strong, cute..we have so much in common..and he's 16, a year older than me..I wanna know..why do I feel this way everytime I see him? He doesn't notice me that much.. =(
But..I wanna..well..I guess..He does kinda know me..a little bit..but..I wanna..Ughh. What should I do?! Do I love..him?? Is that what I feel towards him??
2006-08-22 10:46:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He actually does know me!
We're just not like..best of friends. He likes me as a friend..it's just..we don't see or communicate with eachother as much..
2006-08-22 10:54:30 · update #1
There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me and that is the word LOVE itself holds the answer.......
(L)isten: and validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-08-23 21:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.
The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love. Others call it a recently invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages (though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry). Others maintain that love really exists, is not an abstraction, but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another. Others attempt to define love by applying the definition to everyday life.
Click the link to learn more.....and hope it helps! :)
2006-08-22 17:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Just a Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read 1 Cor. 13. it makes "Love" very clear. i don't honestly know if you can say you Love someone before you really know them, though. you can Love someone at any age. (well, i mean, excuse babies and stuff...) if you Love him, you'll want what's best for him. NOT just what he want's- but what's really best. people say "oh you'll be patient with true Love"- but it's sorta true. you'll be patient listening, talking to, and with making progress with him. it will feel like he's your missing half. where you fall short- he will be strong. and you'll be able to be strong where he's not.
you'll be totally interested in him, but not just for a short time. the more you know him- the more you'll feel that you Love him, and could spend a lifetime by his side. you both will be willing to give anything to see the other happy- they'll be your only conscern. he'll respect you greatly, and you him. Love never fails, never ends, and never gives up. you'll find that to be very, very true. Love is infinite- no one could explain it to you.
trust me... get your hands on a Bible (whether you believe in God or not, you'll find that this WILL be true- i promise!), and look up 1 Corinthians 13- the whole passage. when you find Love, it will look like this.
2006-08-22 17:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Silence Dogood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a crush, love is when both u love each other, it happens to all of us in one point in our life mabe if more( most likly more than10 times) . when u meet a guy/girl that u like , u all of a sudden start acting weird round them, and get a sort of tummy rumble.... so i think if u want to get over it and find out if its love, ask im out :) good luck
2006-08-22 17:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dahlia. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what love is but What your feeling is not love is actually lust you just have a big crush on him
2006-08-22 17:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't love him you got a crush... wait until your 20 to tell someone you love them.then you know what love is. and hey ask the boy to have a coffee and get to know the guy... only way to find out is to get to know him. good luck!
2006-08-22 17:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not love. You're lusting for him, that's about it. When you're in love, you will know.
2006-08-22 17:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by koala988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called an infatuation not love.
2006-08-22 17:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bullshit. PURE BULL!
2006-08-22 17:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by watswiththestupidquestions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋