I hate her so much she's a biitch and caused my parents divorce, she's an instigator and a free loader, loves to screw up anyone who gets on her way wether it's good or bad, she even treats her child bad, she doesnt bath her or feed her. She wrecked a car i sold her and now she doesnt wanna pay. She has a shitty life and none of us family members want her in our lives. She thinks her life is so great with her felon jobless, abusive premiscious boyfriend whom by the way got another girl pregnant and is 18 only has been locked up many times since he was 12 and now does nothing w/his life but beat my sister and she still stays with him shes a stupid biitch dont yall think ??? my sis is 20 and her kid almost 2. She doesnt respect anyone and once even hit my mom. she threatend to kill me and threatend my mom because some one reported her to Cps she said my mom would regreat it. Does she deserve my forgiveness? i really hate the way shes ruined our lives.
2006-08-22 10:46:04 · 13 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We have tried so many things to get her out of that empty life she so proudly carries and nothing works, ultimately it's her choice to make her own decisions, Look im a very nice girl and very caring for all my siblings and i talk to her nicely but i think i've reached the end of this relationship i want nothint 2 do with her. I feel i should still have open arms for her but she keeps pushing us away i try to talk some sense to her or some responsibility and shes the kind of person who gets fired up immediately even if ur speaking with a kind voice i am serious, im so not the violent or yelling at u type of person.
2006-08-22 10:54:50 · update #1
Every family has someone like this in it. Isn't it sad? If you feel the child is in danger then your family needs to go together and file for custody of the child, then file a restraining order against her and her boyfriend. Stand up to her. People like that get off on being a bully. If they do something file charges on them quick. If they ask if she is a relative tell them she is no longer a member of your family. Your primary concern should be for the child, who deserves much better than that.
2006-08-22 11:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to send you this message but it said that your email had not been comfirmed, so I will write it in here. I hope you get it.
well its alot like when a family member is addicted to drugs.
The whole family needs to get together w/out your sister and discuss what is going on with your sister, and make a agreement that something has to change, and you will not allow her to cause anymore damadge to the family.
Then have your sis join in and each family member tell your sis how she is affecting the family and that you will not allow this to continue. You give her a choice get help and make true changes or cut off contact till she does. It doesn't mean you don't love her, your doing this because you love her. She would have to make a choice on the spot, and till she is ready, you will cut off contact. Its important she know what she is doing is hurting all of you. This seems harsh, but it works 90% of the time. And your not alone, its the whole family there. But you don't want to sound like she is being attact, but you are doing this for the familys best interest and hers, because you care. Your sis could end up dead.
If you need anymore details let me know.
Good luck to you and your family..
2006-08-22 17:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, look i really know how you feel,but to hate is not a good thing,but to really not like somebody is ok,if anybody is saying that they will kill you then you should go to the police as soon as you can,and for someone to hit their mother is not even a person,if someone owns you for a car or anything else and does not pay if it is in writing then take them to court,then you will get payed,once again go to the police and tell then that your sister said she is going to kill you,please do that,and always be safe,god bless you!!! good-luck with everything, hope i could help you, barbara,
2006-08-22 18:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by barbara n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister still has alot of growing up to do, and she may not grow up for many more years. Just try to avoid her as much as you can, but please keep your eye on that poor little child. She may need somebody to save her soon.
2006-08-22 17:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i were you and i know this mite be hard to do but you need to some how get that child away from her so it won't die.
2006-08-22 17:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away fom her until she staightens out. Who needs the drama?
2006-08-22 17:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i hate your sister too. i would tell her to get lost until she's ready to be nice and responsible
2006-08-22 17:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by Baconbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't forgive her. She sounds like my twin sister. JUST like her!
2006-08-22 17:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hat my brother a lot.
2006-08-22 18:01:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad
2006-08-22 17:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋