1. Make sure she is single.
2. Make sure she is single.
3. Ask yourself why you like her - if you say 'because she's pretty' I will hit you .... somehow. . . . . . which isn't to say that you aren't allowed to think she is pretty, but there should be more than that. If you like her because she seems to know a lot about the world cup, (and you live for the world cup) invite her and some other friends over to watch some of the great moments that you tivo'd. If you have multiple friends that like the world cup it works best, but you may have to pay/bribe/beg them to come with too. As a girl, I like to know that boys can have fun and not be a smushy-fake-romantic, especially at first. Plus, it takes the pressure off of the two of you for conversation and such. Anyway, moral of the story is start with a group date that (not obviously) highlights you (i.e. your house, and amazing tivo ability) and shows common interest. Other ideas may involve a sport thing (group going to play b-ball), or just watching a movie you know she likes, but wouldn't be strange for you to like too (don't have a titanic viewing party unless you are very comfortable with yourself and your friends won't tease you about it forever).
4. I would say the next step is either a party or a pseudo date. Make a nonchalant contact after the group activity, and ask her to party that someone else is having. Don't have the party at your house, because you will be busy with prep and friends and can't leave at any time. If you go to someone else's house, you can leave anytime you want and completely pay attention to her. If you (or she) don't go to parties, then this is the time for date (of the sort you would like). I would go with the priceless 'i really had a great time watching the world cup, I was wondering if you want to go see my little brother play on saturday, and maybe get ice cream afterwards. (Don't say 'you wouldn't want to go with me to go ....', it sounds really negative and bad, instead throw in the 'maybe' it shows that you're feeling a little vulnerable (which you probably are) but it makes girls want to make you feel okay. Unless, of course, the guys that she hangs out with are really agressive and bold, at which point throw out the maybe, but make sure it is still a question (you are asking her out, not demanding). Anyway, the soccer game is a good segue to a 'real' date. At this point, you are still in a 'group situation' which will make her feel safe and not have her guard up as much as if you said 'lets go to dinner and a movie.' The ice cream afterward (which you should do w/o brother, any other friends, parentals, etc) gives you some privacy, but there isn't a huge commitment to 'dating' . . . . . . . . yet.
5. ask her out on a real date! This would be the time for movies, dinner, a picnic, or anything else that you and she would like to do that you are Both interested. By this time you should be used to seeing/talking/interacting with her, so it should be no prob. No fancy wording advice, sorry, but it should be easy from now on.
2006-08-22 11:12:05
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answered by annie*bananie 2
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Dont ask her out over the phone... it seems like your realtionship and feelings go deeper than that and that is somewhat impersonal. You should think of a creative idea something sweet but not overdone... think of something you both have in common and go from there. But do a little bit more research about this guy that might be more than a friend you dont want to go up to her with somewhat of an insecurity of if she already has a man. so be careful good luck and i hope this was helpful!
2006-08-22 10:49:43
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answered by lhsdancehayla 1
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Well, it may be rough for the first few days and everything. but their your friends they SHOULD support you or at least not comment about you&her if you guys go out. They may make some remarks and snickers about you 2 every once and a while but not all the time so that would be good you know. IF you like her , ask her out . See how it goes. But if you dont have some or all support from you friends it may be a little hard for a while ...
2016-03-27 01:31:52
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answered by Anonymous
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I have the same problem wit guys just think about it and say do i like this girl enough to ask her out and conqor my fears of shyness?
And If you like her that much you will then know what to do.
I hope this helps and if it doesnt then work up the courage to ask her out,oh and I wouldnt ask her out on the phone its a sign of weekness. If she has a boyfriend then the worst thing she can say to you is no i dont wanna go out wit you. But hay thats one less fear you have to worry about,Good Luck to You!!!
2006-08-22 10:53:15
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answered by Anonymous
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I think that you should stop being shy! I used to be shy, but then one day I was like "**** it, im going to stop being shy!"lol...
You should ask people that know her, if she is in a relationship. If she is not, then one day, you should take a pretty red rose to school and give it to her, then tell her how you really feel about her, and ask her on a date!
A guy did that to me, and it was the cutest thing ever. Everybody started clapping and cheering!
I will always remember that day....even though we arent together anymore.
2006-08-22 10:54:35
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answered by JENNA 1
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What ever you do, don't ask her friends because she'll find out! Whenever you see her act like your really smart and cool! Show that your a nice person. Complement her on her clothes or anything you like about her! Don't act as though your to cool for her. If you walk by her and accidentally brush by her say I'm soooo sorry! Show her you really care for her! I hope it works out!
2006-08-22 10:59:10
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answered by Gracie 2
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just "say would you like to go with me" be ready to have a plan for where you will take her because she may ask where you want to take her
the worst that can happen is she will say no and if you live a normal life that is bound to happen sooner or later anyway
and you will get over it
I've been turned down and i just accept the fact they did not have as good of taste as i thought
2006-08-22 10:53:16
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, try to find out anything special about that girl. If she likes taking pictures, buy a new camera and ask her for help, telling you are not familiar with it... If she likes books, ask her to study with for the next tests... If she likes music, ask her out to her favorite band's copncert... Let it be a little spontaneous, and try to find out if that guy is her boyfriend.
Good luck! Let us know how it went:)
2006-08-22 10:51:17
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answered by adam 1
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"Hi, my names Seraph." shake her hand; if you want. then let her introduce herself, now since you guys were friends at elementary, it wouldn't be that hard to reminisce about old days. The real trick is getting them to quiet down so you can ask, "So hey i was thinking that maybe you and i should go out sometime." that'll tell you if she has a boyfriend or if she's still single. well goodluck buddy.
2006-08-22 10:54:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Just go up to her and ask her out. it is very simple. You could say "Would you like to go to the movies with me?"
You want some very long drawn out answer but it is very simple. Dating doesnt have to be as hard as everyone thinks it is. Trust me! i do know this from experience and i am still with my guy, am engaged and been with him for 3 years. Just ask her out!!!!
2006-08-22 10:49:14
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answered by Common Sense 5
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