He won't be home for about 2 months. I want to know how to stay in contact with him without he or his friends thinking I am clingy and also in a way that keeps him interested. I don't want him to associate me with his childhood since I am back at home and nothing is changing here and he is changing completely.
He is very busy and rarely gets a chance to talk to me. Should I act upset or take the role of the understanding girlfriend? I am kind of wavering between those two right now.
2006-08-22 10:14:47 · 1 answers · asked by downabbyroad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, to be brutally honest, you should be cautiously optimistic that you will have a relationship after he has finished college.
That being said, we live in a time where there are more ways of communicating then ever before. Via phone or computer, txt messages, email, voice calls...etc.
I have a long distance marriage. We stay in contact via email every other day, a phone call 1 - 2 times a week, and see each other most weekends. A relationship that wants to stay in contact, will stay in contact.
If the relationship does not mean that much to him, don't be surprised if he spends more time seeking out other relationships where he is at. That's the cautious part. It's ok to be optimistic that things will work out, but if they don't work out, you need to be ready to move on with your life.
Your young, and have all kinds of time to develop a loving relationship based on mutual respect and trust.
If this relationship doesn't work, just be glad you find out when you do, and be glad you didn't make the mistake of having a child with him.
My best wishes are with you.
2006-08-23 02:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋