ive been dating a guy for about a month and he wants to wait to have sex until we are in a stronger relationship or something. its not about the moral....i dont get what its about though.
2006-08-22 10:14:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He obviously cares about you!
2006-08-22 10:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a problem in with sex pops up a relationship its time to take a step back on it. Wether its him cheating or you not understanding his lack of needing it in the relationship, you need to talk with the guy till you understand a little better whats going on. Also, there is no good or bad time to have sex in a relationship your both defining what it means to be in the relationship with each other so its up to you and him to terms with that new purpose (always hated the term responsiblity) in each others lives.
2006-08-22 17:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he does care. A relationship shouldn't be based solely on sex. If you have a GUY who is willing to wait, it's a good sign. Usually it's the only thing they want, and since he's wants to wait, you should be happy.
2006-08-22 17:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really you both need to wait until you are married.
Sex should be something that you share in a marriage relationship. Not something that you do because you think it will strenthen your relationship because a lot of times that is what bakes it up.
He is smarter than you think
2006-08-22 17:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a keeper, reason for waiting to have sex may very but I would hold on to this guy.
2006-08-22 18:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing the right thing, except the stronger relationship should be marriage, itself. IF his motive are pure, then you would be foolish to let him get away.
2006-08-22 17:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about a guy who is smart enough to know what comes after sex. If you are right for eachother, it is o.k. with both of you to wait.
2006-08-22 17:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Adventures of Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up and do a victory dance lol cus ive never met a man that actually wants to wait to have sex ...so you go girl , it just means he's interested in you not your sex..
2006-08-22 17:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please wait.... This should be a clue that he obviously sees something in you that is a stronger connection and intimacy might stale it out a little. Just wait, those that wait comes great things.
2006-08-22 17:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by sunny d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very smart person you have there....do not fault him at all. Be honest about how you feel and he is being honest about the way he feels so your relationship will be great if it is ment to be...Just go with the flow and see whre it goes.
2006-08-22 17:18:58 · answer #10 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just want to get to know their spouse better for they go into a more intimate relationship. He probably just wants to feel more secure about you.
2006-08-22 17:15:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋