2006-08-22 09:44:39 · 25 answers · asked by Rose123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily, it may just mean that now he can't deny that it's over, that SHE no longer loves HIM! Do they have children? He may be disturbed that another man will be taking the position of Dad in the home.
2006-08-22 10:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He married her. Of course he has feelings. It’s whether he sees those feelings as something to take action on. Look. Marriage is a big thing. Ending one is just as monumental. There’s going to be feelings on both sides. You probably will never know why he still feels this way. The most important thing you need to understand and accept isn’t if he harbors any good or bad feelings about his ex-wife or if he wants her back. That’s the past and must be left there. You are here and now. You need to help him through this and help him see that he too has future. You need to let him know. What’s really hard after a divorce, especially one that he doesn’t instigate is letting him know that he is still desirable not just physically but as a good human being. He needs to know he is of some value to someone. Normally, you will feel that he doesn’t need it but if there ever was a time to get that reinforcement it’s now. The human heart is the most fragile thing in the universe. No matter how tuff the exterior, the human heart will still break. Are you willing and strong enough to help fix his?
2006-08-22 10:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah but you knew that before you got with him deep down inside but don't get upset because now you at least know he can love an when you have been with some one an love them it just doesn't go away it's a new thing for him an in time he will realize that he has all the love he needs with you an will be able to give all to you but to become upset will drive him away in time just be there an let him know it's hard for you but your there for him after all he is human an we all have time when our deep feelings are tested this one of them. it may happen to you some day so just give alittle of yourself for him an see what happen an if it's to much for you to take then you can always back out
2006-08-22 10:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by jeffrey h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he did love her. That's why he married her. Nothing unnatural about someone getting jolted from an ex finding another true love. especially when it comes to marriage. Give him some time to sort his thoughts out on the subject. But, make sure you dont push him to 'get over it'. He had feelings and may still have feelings. He may be upset that he couldnt make his marriage work. But, that doesnt mean he is still in love with her. Love usually doesnt leave completely. When he sorts out his thoughts, maybe you can ask him about them. If he doesnt want to talk, dont worry and dont pressure. If he falls into some deep depression about it or does irrational things cuz of it, then maybe you need to get a heads up. but, I wouldnt worry about that. Stay confident in your relationship and don't let this cause any problems.
2006-08-22 09:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like the thought of ANY girl that they have ever been with being with someone else.. much less an ex wife. Its an ego thing not so much as an I still love her and don't want her to move on thing. Give him a lot of sex and he will be back to normal tomorrow
2006-08-22 09:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by miked1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse he is still going to have some love for her and maybe the pain still haven't gone away. He might act as thought nothing is bothering him about the situation but it does in the inside. Maybe he still had something going with her on the side you never know because you know how ex lovers still sleep together until they r digging the person they are certainly with. But he still love her because he made vows to this person and won't ever forget.
2006-08-22 09:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by babygirlhollaataplaya2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily... Even though he may have moved on, it still kinda hurts when your ex gets married or moves on with a move as big as that. I found out after 3 years that my ex was about to have a baby with his new gf... hearing about both their marriage and the birth of their baby was still a bit painful, even though I had moved on with my life.
2006-08-22 09:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Defiant_Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't love her anymore but he may have hard feelings because he isn't married yet and she already found someone AND married them. He is probably just jealous that she moved on faster then he did. I wouldn't be concerned unless he was contacting her a lot.
2006-08-22 09:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't thin so maybe he is upset that he didn't do what it took to reach that stage and may think he may not again, failing at a relaonship especially if you have out so much into it and it had so much value to you it can be harder to accept that others have moved on faster than you. it can hurt you can feel like you wasted you time and won't make it work. give him confidence that its ok for things to have to move on and not to let it push the time you have to be satisfied with your life and can make a life you are proud of. don't let it pass by with being angry that it didn't work that time. every second that goes by is another
opportunity to make change and progess.
2006-08-22 10:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by curiousbynature 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably so, and if they have kids together then he will always care about her probably. People who are still in love with each other do divorce.... it doesn't turn the love off. But don't fret he's with you, not her.... and if she just got married more than likely you won't have to worry about the two of them ever hooking up/
2006-08-22 09:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by yahooanswersgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋