How are girls supposed to make the first move?

Question

I usually just wait for the guys to make the first move, but they're never guys who I really like. I'm interested in another guy, but I'm too shy to make the first move. Any advice?

Answer 1

what i think you should do is start being real flirty around him, touch his arm or leg. Then give him the eyes....you know what i'm talking bout & that mysterious smile that leaves him asking "Is she interested or just teasing me? i wanna find out!"

GooD LucK

Answer 2

Aw, I know exactly what you mean. I'm super shy too, so that doesn't really help, lol. Try asking him to go places with you. Like if you're going out with friends, invite him along. If he says yes, awesome, if he says no, then don't let it phase you.

If you're feeling particularly brave, ask him to do something, just you and him. But leave it like super open and friendly-sounding. And if he says no to that, don't feel too bad. Just brush it off and go on talking with him like nothing happened. And if you feel brave again, try it again.

I don't know really, it's a slow process. I'm not bold though so I try to do it as subtle as possible.

Best of luck, I'm sure it'll turn out awesome :)