hes older than me but i realllly like him. hes also my best friend what should i do?????? im afraid tellin him could reck our friendship. but i realllllllllly like him maybe even love him... hes kinda shy but i think he likes me too. what should i do????
2006-08-22 09:37:41 · 31 answers · asked by cliderocker50 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confess your truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuue feelings???
2006-08-22 09:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you know how many men out here would would love to have a woman that is there best friend. I can see what your saying about not wanting to lose what you have but if you don't an some other woman comes along an finds out what you already know you will be like that woman on my best friends wedding an it might just be to late so sometime you have to take the chance an go for it love can only last a life time.. good luck
2006-08-22 16:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by jeffrey h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wait until he come on to you because he might like you and you like him and if you like him you won't question him about doing anything. But if you want to stay friends don't start a relationship because you an him might break up after a while and you will lose a lover and a best friend so if I was you I would continue my flirting until you both feel as though you'll be in a relationship for a while.
2006-08-22 16:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by babygirlhollaataplaya2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need my tips because with these precious tips i turned my best best friend into a loving boyfriend although he talked to me alot about not even trying to turn this perfect friendship into love
first you will need to control your feeling and lie yes i didn't misspell the word you should lie and claim that you are dating another one
actually i didn't have to lie because i was really dating someone and that what made my cute friend feel jealous and speak up after a year of suffering with him
second tip you need to pretend that you are really busy with the other guy... you don't really care about him .. you wish him good luck with his girlfriend and the most important is that he's like a brother to you
third tip you are happy with the other guy but suddenly something wrong happened here you run to your sincere brother and ask for help now he will speak up to tell you that you deserve better
that was my scenario which was written planned and directed by God
2006-08-22 16:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much older? I think that unless you're younger than 18 and he's like 15 years your senior, there's not much problem in age.
Unfortuntately, there is a remote risk of wrecking your relationship, but I think that you've got more chances to keep the friendship, and probably his love also.
2006-08-22 16:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend to ask for you it works all the time i did it with my friend and it was fun, and then we broke-up we're till the best of friends
just say:
Hey _________ um _________wants to go out with you is that okay?
and then talk to him make sure it's clear that no matter what you guy will still be best est of friends
or just don't do it at all but what I'm i to say
2006-08-22 16:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lovergurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise him with a gesture of your affection that also reflects how much you appreciate his friendship. that way, if he doesnt reciprocate, then he knows you still value him as a friend. If you don't tell him, then you will just make yourself crazy. Be crazy in love, not crazy in secret. Its always a risk, but you just might find true love.
2006-08-22 16:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really treating you as lil sister and nothing more than a friend, stay with it. Telling him the truth might freak him out. You'll lose him as your friend.
There are many boys out there, no rush!
2006-08-22 16:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could do what i did with my best friend.....i married him....and it is the best thing i ever did....i think if you start out as friends and then work up to romantics then it makes for a better relationship because you already know each other
2006-08-22 16:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by princessofpain4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should give it a shot if you really like him. And who knows, since you are good friends you'll have stuff to talk about, and stuff you like to do together. If you like him that much, you should give it a try. Who knows what could happen? But hopefully something good. :-)
2006-08-22 16:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing to do is tell him, nothings gonna change if your not straight with him. if he really is your best friend and it turns out he doesnt like you he wont act weird around you after or he shouldnt
2006-08-22 16:48:19 · answer #11 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋