why do women hate fat men?

Question

It seems like good looking women pretend that they can't see ugly guys. They pretend that they don't exist. Why is that? Hello can you see me? At least you can make a face at me to aknowledge me that you see me.

Answer 1

The same reason men hate fat chicks. Are you fat and "stupid"?

Answer 2

You know there are two thing you can do...get used to have your life limited by your size...jobs, mates, friends...OR you can set about to change your prospects and lose the weight. You know the facts of life..you have already stated them. Is it fair...hell no! Are kitchens built for short people...Hell no! You can rant and rave, you can go on a campaign to change world opinion, but you will be fighting a losing battle. Better to spend your time doing constructive things about yourself. Change your attitude or change your size...your choice. I will be the first to admit that when I was younger, I had a real problem with fat people...they are thought of as slovenly. Well, as we age, we find this is just not true...and my attitude changed drastically. That does NOT mean I am attracted to fat people, but they exist in my head, and I have fat friends now. Years ago, that would not have happened. I have gained an appreciation for what you go through..not pretty. I became invisable when I hit 50...thought is funny, but then again, I was in a solid relationship, so it was amusing to some extent. IT would not be so amusing were I single. And I am quite sure you are not amused. The easiest thing to change is size. ANYONE can lose the weight if they set their mind to a better life, a better career, a better mate, etc. Would you prefer to settle for whatever you can get in an unfair society? Your choice. good luck

Answer 3

Why do men hate fat women?
It seems likd good looking men pretend that they cant see ugly girls. They pretend they dont exist. Why is that?

you see it aint just women doing this.. are you in highschool? If so its because you guys are still immature and when you do grow up you will find the right person for you

Answer 4

Okay. your question was why do women hate fat men? i dont think all fat men are ugly there are some good looking fat men, depending on how large they are, i'm not saying they are my type, but some women do like the larger than life character...by the way are you fat?

Answer 5

Most likely for the same reason a lot of men either look through or give looks of disgust at fat women. If you smile at anyone (without leering or something like that) and say hello, the vast majority of people in general will respond.

Answer 6

Well I'm a tomeboy and do sports so if their overweight and chubby they couldn't keep up with me... And some woman my not find fat guys sexy...

the ugly thing-Woman don't always agree i will give u an ex.

Sue thinks Michel Jackson is hot.
Maria thinks Michel Jackson is ugly.
Sue and Maria both agree that Orlando Bloom and Jonny Depth are hot.


Life example-none of my friends think my bf isn't that cute-in fact most of 'em think he's butt ugly. Yet I think he's not ugly and think he's very attractive...

So girls don't always agree of which guy is ugly...

ps the sue and maria thing are just the 2 names I came up with!

Answer 7

I've never been with a group of friends and said "you know what that fat chick over there is hot". You know why because fat is not hot. I can only imagine chicks being the same way.

It's time to face the facts my little fat friend; there are four rules to life
1. gotta have money (power)
2. gotta have looks
3. gotta have brains
4. gotta have skills

If you lack all of these, well your fuckedd. Most of us have at least one so find it and harness it, because your going to need it.

The above is why Donald Trump is banging a model, Howard stern is banging a model, Artie Lang gets laid, Bill gates gets laid. Ugly men, fat men, smart ugly men with money can get a hot chick, but fat ugly poor dumb men are going to have to bang fat chicks.

Good luck

Answer 8

Frank Zappa once sang, "there will come a time when you won't even be ashamed if you are FAT."

PS Why do you want them to notice you? So you know what it feels like to have a woman?

Just flush half your assets down the toilet, and you'll know how it feels.

I just saved you a lot of trouble. You're welcome.

PPS I would date someone as "good looking" as I am. But they better have as good an educational background and income too. And a lot of the people on here being so high and mighty have NOT posted their actual pictures. They may or may not be fat themselves. But they could be thin and ugly too.

Answer 9

Interestingly, most of these people are correct. Every person on this earth judges, and that is human nature. Does it suck? Yes, it sucks, and it hurts. But show some self confidence. If you see a woman gag if you try to flirt with her, laugh it off. We don't need women or amazing bodies. All we need is self-confidence

Answer 10

i cant speak for other females in the world just speaking for myself ive dated a heavy set guy before and it was cool i mean if u keep urself up smelling good clean clothes and clean shoes and ur house isnt nasty then i dont see y females domt get attracted i mean i dont have anything against anyone because we are all human we wasnt meant to be the same im not gone lie it some very attracted heavy set men out there

Answer 11

Women don't hate fat guys. If you mean you would like to pursue a relationship with a female but can't seem to because of your weight, you might want to think of it this way: Would you want to date/be in a relationship with someone overweight/obese who you did not find physically attractive at all? Be what you want to be attracted to you. In other words: if you are attracted to and want to pursue a relationship with someone who is healthy looking, average weight=be healthy and do what you can to get to an aveage weight yourself.