theres this guy that i like alot... and i dont know how to let him know i like him, and i know i know that people say ohh just tell him... but i dont think i can just walk up to him and be like "hey, oh by the way i like you alot.." ..... is there like anyother way??
2006-08-22 09:25:35 · 8 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no baby girl, don't tell him. you want just to keep talking to him. he should be able to get the hint without the actualy word being spoken. i don't know how old you are, but if you can ask him to see a movie (just the two of you). he can't be this dense not to get it.
2006-08-22 09:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Well, if you're going for the mature, quick-n-easy approach, try the
maintenence free "I like you". Just go right up and tell him how you
feel. You'd be suprised how much he'll appreciate it and respect you
for it! Even if he's not completely ready to go out with you, I
expect he'll like that approach more than the drawn-out flirtatious
approach. Good luck!
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2. I would start writing him letters or calling him, and see how
he reacts. If he doesnt seem bothered, then go for it. OR just talk to him
about how you feel, and see if he feels the same. If he backs off when you
try to get alittle closer, he might not want a relationships and then you
might just have to find someone else to like. Sometimes dropping hints dont
work because guys arent looking for them or they just dont
realize-especially guys at your age. Welps, i hope ive helped! Goodluck!
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3. Sounds like to me you know what you want to do. I just got done
telling someone else this- guys need things spelled out for them. I'm not
being sexist, it's just the truth. The next time you get into a
conversation, be a little more than subtle. If you ask him to go to a
dance, say " You should go the dance on Friday" and if he says ok, then say
" Hey, I'll see you there, maybe we can dance or something." He should be
getting the drift by then. And if at the dance,he seems still clueless,
say, "I really like you alot, maybe we can do a movie next weekend" You
sound very outgoing, so just don't be afraid to say that you like him, You
have nothing to lose. Promise!!! Keep smiling!!!
2006-08-22 16:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start flirting with him. Flirt with him enough so he know's you are but not too much so you don't seem desparate! if he flirts with you back then you should ask if he wants to go over to a friends house and hang with a bunch of other people. Like a party but more like people hanging together. Then if he accepts tell him there!
2006-08-22 16:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by lilmisspearson13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write A Poem.. Or Dedicate A Song To Him... Just Say Hey Ever Hear Of This Song .. And If His Response is a yes.. say thats my song for you.. or just be old fasion and say what are you doin for dinner.. see what happens,,,
2006-08-22 16:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by chubbyplayboybunnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advice u to invite him 2 a gathering with friends so that it doesn't seem 2 awkward for u and there will be alot to talk abt.
2006-08-22 16:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Blinch B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...u got me, i was goin to tll u to just tell him, but if thats not like yr personality type, then do sumthin that duz go wit yr personality...b a secret admirer or sumthin...get his attention, then let him no...it'll work out....or if all else fails use tha age old trick to get yr bff to tell him!* hope this helps!!
2006-08-22 16:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by blueyez_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very simple.give him a gift with alove greeting card.and a smile on ur face
2006-08-22 16:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with him. show him your breasts.
2006-08-22 16:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋