I've been dating this girl for a few weeks now and although she's really caring and we get along so well together, she's made it clear that I'm not "getting any" until I cut my hair into a really short hairstyle. To make matters worse, she's been sexually teasing me to the point of insanity. My friends keep telling me not to do it. What should I do??
2006-08-22 09:24:26 · 32 answers · asked by figaro1912 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just cut ur hair - it will grow back. if u really want to get in her pants this should be a no brainer.
2006-08-22 09:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol. That's a tough situation.
I agree with your friends to keep your hair. If she's trying to make you cut it, that means she's trying to change you. Plus, it takes years to grow long hair and I know I hate it when I have to get it cut. It kind of grows attached to you, doesn't it?
Just hold on for a bit longer and show her you're stronger than that. She'll eventually realize that you're not going to break down so easily for sex, and let you keep your hair the way it is and still love you.
2006-08-22 09:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by sue_sun28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to pee off
depends if you want to be the subservient in the relationship. Whats next dont see your mates if you want a BJ ....
I have been there seen loads of mates there and the majority have regreted giving in. Bottom line is is there any respect for your choices of what you look like and how would she like it if you started telling her she couldnt wear certain clothes. In short it is hard but try not thinking with your libido and your brain instead .... I did try it but often failed. My guess shes under 25 and just trying to see what power she has got over you
2006-08-22 09:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by happysurferuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a less horrible girl. If you let this woman dictate to you, this will set the pattern for the rest of your time together. No one should commit sexual blackmail like that. Your girlfriend is disgusting and, if you put up with it, then you are a total wussy.
2006-08-22 09:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont cave in. she's manipulative, cunning, and an all around c***-tease. the fact that she's forcing you to change yourself in order to "get some" is telling of the future of the relationship. if you're going to do anything, i'd suggest telling her that you're willing to compromise and cut your hair to a middle length, rather than really short, and see what she says. but you shouldnt give in to unreasonable demands for the sake of having sex.
2006-08-22 09:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you are probably super hot...but your long hair makes you look dirrrty. She probably really wants to bang you but your hair looks all greasy and nasty. I agree, I would not do a guy with long Axel Rose hair...it's just an issue of aesthetics. Cut the hair and get laid!
2006-08-22 10:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think you have a future with her then yes you should. If you think that you are only going to date her for a couple of months or so don't do it. But she should like you no matter what your hair looks like. You should be able to have your hair however you like it and have her like it too!
2006-08-22 09:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by lilmisspearson13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had long hair through high school and college. I got a lot more play w/o it. Cut it. Have sex w/ her and then break up with her b/c she forced you to cut your hair. Then go meet a ton more gals and have a ball. Go Cavs!!!
2006-08-22 09:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by maltese falcom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If that girl can't love you the way you are she needs to be the one cut loose! Serious, whats next! What is she going to want you do do next? Put on a pink doggy collar and take long walks around the mall with all her friends in tow? Besides, long hair is SOOOOOOOOO sexy on a man! You'll find another girl quick.
2006-08-22 09:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Hello A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Move on. There's another girl out there who will love your hair. It's not like she didn't notice your hair growing. You didn't hide your hair from her.
Don't do it! Hold onto your values. Don't let her choose, choose for her. To heck with ultimatums.
2006-08-22 09:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Hey You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to change you. If you do this then there will be no end to what she asks you to change next and she will use sex to get you to do it. You need to tell her that you love being with her, but that if she can't accept you for who you are then she needs to get lost.
2006-08-22 09:31:50 · answer #11 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋