why wont my ex tell me that it bother him that im friends with his friends?

Question

My ex is upset at the fact that I am friends with his friend richard? But he wont say anything about it. There is nothing going on...as a matter of fact me and Richard aren't even cool anymore.. Why doesn't he tell me that he has a problem with it...I mean even though he's my ex he comes before his friend that I just met.

Answer 1

If he's an ex who cares? Why don't people seem to understand the definition of ex at yahoo answers? An ex is someone who is no longer part of your life, therefore you don't worry about what they think or how they feel, thats the whole point of not seeing them anymore. If you were going to continue to do those things why not just continue the relationship?

Answer 2

Men want their own friends, usually I get stuck with being friends with all of his friends. Which can be a bad thing. Maybe he is jealous because he think you are stealing his friend from him, or he still has feelings for you, and he doesn't want his friend to have you, he wants you. I have that problem too, but I have known this guy as long as my ex has. And he still gets pissed off. Men like that are assholes, just tell him it's to bad and he is going to have to live with it. Better yet, why is it bothering you, he's not your man anymore.. so you don't have to tell your ex anything. Cause it's known of his business anyways.....

Answer 3

Because he is ur ex main point and he can't tell you who to hang with because he isn't your dude anymore and don't have controll or can't tell you who to talk to or not. But on the other hand why would you be talking to one of his friends that's kind of rude because things could go on between you and his friend and then your ex will lose a friend. So watch what your doing don't talk to his friend to make him jealous but mess with someone out the picture to make your ex want you more.

Answer 4

Men are difficult to deal with at times. If he doesnt want u to be friends with his friends, just respect that. Yes, ur right he should say it but guys dont always voice their feelings. Just be cool about it, say hi and bye to his friends, respect them n him but dont hang out with his friends or talk to them on the phone etc.

Everyone has the right to seperate their love life from life with their friends, He wants his boys to be his boys its different if his girl or ex girl is freinds with them too. Think about it this way, Ur man or ex hanging out with ur girls all the time. They go out to the mall, eat out go to an amusement park whatever u guys do for fun without u. Got it? Feels weird huh?

Now that is how he feels when u befriend his friends.

Answer 5

persoanly i paintings the dorky nerdy look, thick rimmed glasses (semi, perfect is thick black steel and backside isn't something) with reddish blonde hair and hazel eyes. i've got been given a honest completcion so i do heavy black makeup. My hair is layered and somewhat over sholder length with semi section swept bangs ( greater in my face) that are angled because of the fact I actually have a around face. i usualy placed on black t shirts from warm subject count with humorous **** on em and denims yet i've got been given my semi prepy moods that become this nerdy funk think of i like my look.

Answer 6

Why do you care what your ex thinks? Just get on with your life.

Answer 7

He probably doesn't want you to see that he still cares, even though he still does. Maybe you and your ex will get back together.

Answer 8

Probably because he knows he has no right to tell you that. He is after all, your ex!

Answer 9

He doesn't want to seem like he's trying to run ya life. I mean ya are just friends and thats how men r at times you know.

Answer 10

What do you care??? Why are you worrying about something so trivial? He is your Ex....and even if he wasn't.....you can have any friend you want! Grow up, sweetie!