How should I go about getting to know if the guy I'm in love with, loves me back? Is there a certain way I should approach it? Or should I just sit back like I have been for a while?
2006-08-22 09:20:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well we sorta see each other already but I constantly get asked if I'm with anyone and I don't know how to answer. He's said the "l" word before but I'm still not sure.
2006-08-24 10:40:32 · update #1
Relax. It's going to unfold soon...
2006-08-22 09:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU EVER TALKED ABOUT EITHER OF YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS DO YOU KNOW IF HE HAS EVER BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE. MAYBE HE HASN'T,AND IS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT HIS OWN FEELINGS, OR MAYBE HE HAS AND IT IS A DIFFICULT THING FOR HIM ESPECIALLY IF HE HAS BEEN HURT BEFORE,THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO TALK ABOUT IT, IF YOU DON'T ALREADY KNOW HIS PAST HURTS ASK AND ALSO TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL,HE CANNOT READ YOUR MIND,AND YOU CANT READ HIS, COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO ANY SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP. AND AFTER YOU FIND OUT WERE YOU STAND IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THUS FAR, IT WILL BE MUCH EASIER GO FORWARD OR PLAN THE NEXT STEP IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
2006-08-22 16:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask one of his friends to help you. If you don't want to say something have a buddy of his ask what he thinks of you. Try to have him do it so it doesn't seem like it was coming from you. If you like him don't sit back and wait, someone else may take him.
2006-08-22 16:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by BAM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its extremely important for you to recognize his feeling by his actions...He is a guy so they may not be in the same form as yours...When he expresses love, know that he loves you...it will eventually come out in the form of words but its so necessary for you to feel it in your heart then hear it with your ears...
2006-08-22 16:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is key here. Tell him exactly what you wrote in the question. He will understand perfectly.
Tell him that you want to really get to know him much better in every way possible.
What guy wouldn't want you!!!!
2006-08-22 16:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hold anything back because then you might miss out on him because of other female that comes along and says whats she wants. Im telling men like women that know what they want and women who know how to get what they want. Instead of holding back just say to yourself "**** IT, I DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO LOSE," and go for it.
Im just like you I hold back what I say all the time. And the time that I said how I felt o what was on my mind, it made me realize how much confidence I have.. IT ALL TURNS OUT FOR THE BETTER :)
BUENA SUERTE;)
2006-08-22 16:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by la negra tiene tumbao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by flirting with him. If he flirts back well then you got a chance. Tell one of your friends to ask him out for you. Adn then let him do the talking.
2006-08-22 16:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by luvsunshine0318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As we say over here'just lie back and think of England'
2006-08-22 16:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to start questioning him about it, that will scare him off. Watch his actions, they speak louder than words.
2006-08-22 16:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is bugging you then bring it up honestly. Or just enjoy the slow road he is taking.
2006-08-22 16:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Uncle Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋