I always keep thinking what my mother wants and what she is thinking. I am a good doughter at least I thinks that way, I take care of her good or I try a lot to keep her happy. But some times its imposible. I have tow jobs when i come home she complains or some times she is not in good mood it does effect me and i feel strees around. What should i do how should i dont feel guilty all the time. She always tells me i am out side the house but what can i do i have so many bills. And its hard to survive in one job as of write now.
2006-08-22 09:14:23 · 15 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
watch the movie Failure To Launch cuz maybe she wants you out of the house!
2006-08-22 09:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by D-ster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people you can never please. My father and mother are 2 of those people lol.
I think if you are working 2 jobs you should move out. You should go get a studio apartment. They are the cheapest you can find, unless they are extra large in new york. But in Kansas where I am they are cheap. Anyways....
Let your mom take care of herself. Your old enough to be out on your own. In 4 years you'll be 30 fo you want to be 30 living at home with you mom?
2006-08-22 09:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Questions&Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mother is needy. Take control. Tell her like it is, move forward and leave the guilt behind. You are an adult who needs to take care of adult responsiblities. Your mom is not going to change, so you need to decide if you can live with her like she is and brush it off ,or move out. You are the master of you situation not a slave, unless that is how you want it.
2006-08-22 09:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by JenUs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 jobs and still can barely pay the bills?? or do you only have one?? I can't understand your question and plus how many bills do you have?? just laugh at your mom and tell her you love her and that you are planning to move out and just to calm down and continue playing the waiting game.
2006-08-22 10:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buckle down and get those bills paid off. Get yourself a book that helps you manage your money wisely (All Your Worth by Elizabeth Warrend and Amelia Warren Tyagi is a good one, its easy to read and understand, it written for everyday people, not financial wizards) and then get your own place. Its really not your job to keep her happy, she is old enough to understand that it is her job to keep herself happy.
2006-08-22 09:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to her that you are 26 and you are working two jobs trying to make ends meet. Tell her that you wish you could be home more but right now that's impossible. Reassure her that you do love her.
2006-08-22 09:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie,Are you taken care of your mom or is she letting you still live there?I that the case try and save up and get your own place.Then only visit her form time to time.
2006-08-22 09:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
move out, let your mom be on her own, you need to get a life of your own, at 26 you should be married or living with someone, wanting to start a family of yoyr own, you cannot do that with your mom in your care
2006-08-22 09:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl I'm sorry but grandma seems like a hard nut to crack, leave her for 2 weeks and then come back, see how it progress from there.
2006-08-22 09:37:47 · answer #9 · answered by fifagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might appreciate u more if u show her u can survive without her then she would realise how u contribute 2 her life
2006-08-22 09:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋