It seems to give them a reputation of being a b*tch if they say what they are thinking. I am very outspoken and if I have something to say...I SAY IT! Would people rather be around quite push overs that will go along with anything you say or someone that is honest & real?
2006-08-22 09:13:26 · 12 answers · asked by sweetestthing 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
OK let me add a little more to this. I am not rude at all. If someone asks me of my opinion I don't sugar coat it. If you piss me off I'll let you know. If I'm horny I'll let you know! If I think you are being an @ss I'll let you know. If I think someone is nice looking I let them know. I wouldn't tell someone they were unattractive or anything like that. My motto is if you don't want the truth DON'T ASK! People can label me if they want to because I don't care if I'm disliked or not! I am what I am and I'm not changing for anyone! WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET!!!!
2006-08-22 09:33:52 · update #1
Your writing this question so we can really upset you and justify being that B***H
I do not know you personally. I do know your attitude. I don't want to know you. Read your own question and sup. YOU are RUDE and self-centered, selfish and demanding spoiled brat.
You are addressing a question in the ETIQUETTE section.
You don't have any.and more than likely you will not read the comments here. Your mind is made up I doubt you'll take any suggestion or comment to heart. But I will leave this
Movie... No way out>>> smile when you enter the room>>
And I would take a push over Over you because I know I would never think to punch her in the head to just be polite.
Yea I know you No help to offer. Just another slam.
2006-08-22 10:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between speaking your mind and being a b*tch. Just because you feel the need to express yourself does not mean you need to do it in an in-your-face and abrasive manner, which it really sounds like you do. Perhaps a little tact and diplomacy would allow you to say the same thing without being labelled as a b*tch. Being honest is great, being a complete jackass isn't. I would suggest reading something along the lines of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" for some tips on speaking your mind without offending everyone around you.
2006-08-22 09:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a guy speaks his concepts in a woodland, it really is fairly no diverse than speaking his concepts in a crowd. No, he's no longer incorrect in both project, because it really is what he thinks, no matter if human beings consider him or no longer. Others would imagine he's incorrect, even with the undeniable fact that it would not remember, because back, they're his concepts.
2016-11-26 23:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line, speaking your piece, no matter how nicely, often attacks the belief structure of the people you are speaking your piece to. So when you speak your piece, your listeners feel you are threatening their beliefs. And, when people feel threatened, they do what comes naturally...they defend themselves.
People just naturally carry personal baggage with them...psychological, physical, mental, financial, political, sexual, and all kinds of baggage. When you dump on them with your straight forward revelations, you are dumping more baggage on them. Eventually all that weight will weigh them down; is that the effect your are looking for? If not, learn to hold back your true thoughts or risk not holding on to your friends.
2006-08-22 10:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by oldprof 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's absolute nothing wrong with it and I'm not just saying that because I'm the exact same way. Everyone should speak their mind, be honest and stand their ground.
2006-08-22 10:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ladies who have something to say is ok. Your not useing a bxxxhy tone are you? also people can get their feelings hurt if you blurt out some things so be nice and make your comments politely.
2006-08-22 09:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman speaking her mind. Just be tactful.
There are some people who have to be in-your-face or very rude about it and THAT is wrong.
2006-08-22 09:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is scary to most people (men mostly but women too).
first of all speaking without filters scares the crap out of people because they feel that you are too unpredictable and may turn your 'wrath' on them.
secondly, people develop their own illusions or 'explanations' for situations that occur to them and around them. if you are going to spout off without censoring your views, well then you could very well shatter that for them and they might have to learn/face/ act on something they are avoiding. that's scary.
thirdly, pushovers are fun. sure you don't want a gang of them, but sometimes it is good to have one around, just in case.
*** have you ever heard the expression : "when a man says 'no' it is the end of a question, but when a woman says 'no' it is the beginning of an explanation."
this observation is true and like your question, is rather interesting to ponder.
oh and yes, proactive women are bitches, proactive men are ambitious. hmm ????
2006-08-22 09:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by artful dodger 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Say what is on your mind! Be tactful though, you can say what you think with coming off like a total bit**.
2006-08-22 11:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thereis nothing wrong with ANYONE speaking their mind, provided of course that they have one. In your case it's debatable
2006-08-22 12:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mike S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋