My fiance and I were going through a rough time. We are better now, and I want to do something for him to show that I still love him and to spice things up a little. He has always wanted me to do a strip tease, but I don't have the best body. I have watched myself in the mirror and I truly do look horrible. Is this something that I should do anyway, or will he just run to his friends and tell them about how horrible it was and make fun of me?
2006-08-22 09:08:37 · 19 answers · asked by future_mrs_johnson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you kidding?
Do it for him. He knows what you look like, he's looked at you a lot, I'm sure. He wouldn't be marrying you if he didn't think that you looked great and wouldn't even think about asking for a strip-tease if u were ugly. Ask him if it's what he wants and if he says yes explain that you're self-conscious but you'll do it anyway.
Its ok to be self-conscious.. but if you want to do something special for him... *shrug* go for it..
2006-08-22 09:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women get worried before they go out that they don't look right in the clothes they're wearing. They get all self-conscious and paranoid that they're fat. This is the way chicks think. I'd say it was similar to stage fright. You want to give a good performance and pull a nice guy but you're a little nervous.
Maybe you're suffering from stage fright in this instance? I'm sure if you stripped for your fiance he'll love it. If he doesn't...then perhaps he has something he needs to tell you?
2006-08-22 16:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your fiancee, then he obviously likes your body and loves you for who you are or else he wouldn't even consider spending the rest of his life with you. I think you should surprise him and do the strip tease. I am sure that he will enjoy it and it will spice things up for you. Even if he does tell his friends, they will only be jealous.
Good luck!
2006-08-22 16:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Poopie Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is going to sound weird and maybe even wrong, but send me a pic of you...WITH CLOTHES ON... I'm not some weirdo, and I'll tell you if you should do a strip tease. Ok....i mean if you are going to marry the guy he should like you sexually, but I understand how you feel....i'm a good judge of theses things.
2006-08-22 16:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your fiance for christ's sake! The fact that he is willing to marry you should tell you that he finds you sexy, regardless of how you may feel about yourself, do the striptease. He asked you to do it for a reason. Watch how he looks at you while you strip for him, try to see yourself through his eyes, maybe it'll help you with your little self esteem problem.
2006-08-22 16:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are honest with yourself, and that is important. Don't take the chance, and never video yourselves having sex.
I think some great oral sex goes a long way. The problem with that is, most women don't know how to do that well, they only think they do, because a guy won't tell them. Make him be the coach, and he will be thrilled.
2006-08-22 16:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by jamie_brahan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to a video site like break.com (nsfw video section) or google/yahoo videos and look for examples of women partially stripping for web cams, then try to emulate the good ones in front of a mirror. He'll love it if you do it with confidence.
2006-08-23 10:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask youself this question. "How did I let myself get this way".
Ok now that you have done that, just do it for him. If he runs to his friends or makes fun of you, then maybe you had it coming. Take it as a wake up call. You need to take care of you body, not trash it out!
2006-08-22 16:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes asking for it he probably likes it. I wouldn't ask for it if I didn't want it. I was dating a girl for almost 3 years, and she had put on a bunch of weight. It didn't bother me much though because I loved her for her. She was always able to turn me on you know. So don't sweat it, Just relax and experiment;-)
2006-08-22 16:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by boogatt66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think you look horrible doesn't mean he does. Isn't he the one who WANTS a striptease?
Has he never seen your body before or something?
2006-08-22 16:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋