then yup you got it....
another email follows...
he says.. too much is going on....
at first i was like oh well...
however.. as i woman... i want him to hurt the way he hurt me...
i just want advise on how not too think like that...
2006-08-22 09:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start ferociously masterbating
2006-08-22 09:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by on theWaves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to 'forgive' (if you can) him - that's the only way to get rid of your pain, or at least, try and understand why he did what he did.. there may be a number of reasons. Some people say 'love' when they dont mean it - it means different things to different people.
and dont get caught up in the meaning of the words 'the one' - i dont believe there's just one person out there thats perfect for you - i believe that there's lots of perfect people for you - he obviously wasnt one of them or he wouldnt have hurt you like that - your best off without him.
There will be someone that wont hurt you, ever, and that will be the one you end up with.
2006-08-22 09:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to hurt. And, I'm sorry you will. Unfortunately, men never hurt in the way we hurt. They are just wired differently. They want it all and we're suppose to just say "ok" I hope the hurt does not last long, but time will only tell.
2006-08-22 09:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, revenge is mine sayeth the Lord. Never try to make someone hurt just because they caused you to be in pain. Kill him with love and kindness. Continue to be polite to him because you are a better person than he is and believe me what goes around will come around. Just remember that.
2006-08-22 09:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing in life is make yourself happy and you won't with him so go find someone who will.
now as a person, the best way to hurt someone is to avoid any contact with them, especially if they still contact you once inwhile
2006-08-22 09:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time..not easy but also not impossible.Read actions and not listen to words too much..remember,talk is cheap!regarding wishing he hurts as much as you do,well,we've all wished for that at one point in our lives or another but it really doesn't help you.just get mad that wherever he is he's moving on with his life (and sadly,probably enjoying himself totally) and that should snap you back to reality and FORCE you to start enjoying your own life!life is too short to waste it not LIVING!Get it??
2006-08-22 09:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by Catherine K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back into the dating world and find someone to keep you happy so your not thinking about making him miserable.
2006-08-22 09:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother, it just feeds on itself. Learn to get turned off when guys treat you badly. Before you know it, you've forgotten him and respect and .........love.....yourself more for it.
2006-08-22 09:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breathe and relax. he will get his in his own time.
trust me!
2006-08-22 09:10:01 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dd I thought you were my girlllll
2006-08-22 09:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋