She hasn't spoken but I know she is still there. Occassionally she throws down candy wrappers and cigarette butts. School has started and she hasn't come out yet. I'm concerned for her but I can't climb up because I am disabled. What should I do?
2006-08-22 09:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by Go! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
kidding right???
can u say child protected services on your a## n hers
2006-08-22 09:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cigarette buts? she is 11 right? I'm 11 so maybe i can help a bit.. you know cause I'm the same age maybe i could help you talk to her or something.. is she mad at you or something? if she is then talk to her from the ground even if she doesn't reply she can hear you.... If it's cuz she doesn't want to go to school or something like that tell her she can talk to you about it and depending on the problem say she doesn't have to go... but that might not work... if her best friend or a friend is really nice maybe she can go up and talk to her.. or you could get some one to go up and get her maybe.. if you know why she isn't coming down e-mail me maybe if you tell me i can help more..but the others are right she shouldn't be smoking or anything like that. and you need to take charge but don't treat her like a little kid they'll make things worse I'd think... hope she comes down...
2006-08-22 16:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call social services, the police, or a friend and have them go up there after her. She is 11 and should not be smoking or acting that way. You need to put her over your knee when she is down or send her to a bootcamp or something. You are in for a long ride if your discipline is not in order on this one.
2006-08-22 16:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to use the belt cause the belt has the power....and use one that will hurt..or just whoop her with your hand because she needs to know better she is only 11 and she needs to act like a child not an adult cause adult years are longer she'll get a chance..tell her to enjoy being a kid first
2006-08-22 16:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by getalife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest calling a family member or have the police help you get her down. she may be really upset or doing something that could cause her more harm than good (like smoking) either way she needs your help even though she hasn't asked for it. think....did something happen right before she went into the tree house? she could be afraid to go to school. you need to find out and you need help to get her down. best of luck
2006-08-22 16:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by storm_magus3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a brat. Leave her up there! She'll come down when she runs out of cigaretts.
2006-08-22 16:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get her! or tell a neighbor or friend to go get her. threaten to punish her. then she'll come down. Good luck!<3
2006-08-22 17:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone to go and get her even call the 5o to get her down, she needs an education and needs to get down out of the tree, and stop smoking get her out of that bad habit quick because thats nasty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 16:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Whit E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with jessica's suggestion...she's too young...take charge guy...
2006-08-22 16:13:23 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call for help
2006-08-22 16:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋