My son just met his dad 5 moths ago he has spent his summer vacations there. He had trouble in school last year and htey would like him to stay with them ( a different province and town), they think I should not give him the option at the moment he lives with my parents should I let him stay there, I am not sure what he wants but they thhink he should not have the choice
2006-08-22 08:40:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i WOULD WAIT UNTIL YOUR SON GETS TO KNOW HIM. 5 MONTHS ISN'T A VERY LONG TIME. hAVE HIM GET TO KNOW HIS DAD AND FIND OUT IF THATS WHAT HE TRUELY WANTS TO DO.
2006-08-22 08:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offence but have your husband checked out for a child molester - YOU NEVER KNOW - ESPECIALLY SINCE HE JUST MET THE DUDE 5 MONTHS AGO. Then after you do that and the father seems ok - if the dad doesn't mind and he'd do better in school up there - then maybe it would be to your son's best interest to go to a school semester up at Dad's house by a school there. You said he doesn't live with you anyway - he lives with Grandma & Grandpa - which give me some sort of insite as to how you raised him. Don't know what's going on there - and don't want to know. Good luck.
2006-08-22 08:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by You'llneverguess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u didn't say if u r son is unruly or "Y" the 2 of u broke up!!but "Y" does he want to b. n u r son's life now??? he wuz not there for the first 14,then do u really think he'll b.there for him now!!!!??? i really don't think so,but it's up to u & the court's have to say,he the father been paying support for the last 14 yrs? think about all options here,has your son been giving u any trouble,or the grandparents any trouble ????u never said,then if he's not giving them any teouble then leave him there @ the g/p home.
2006-08-25 18:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Wonetta B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is obvious that you dont trust your ex with your boy. or else you wouldnot have asked this.ask your son if he wants to stay with you or not. let him take his own decision. where was the father before this time?if he is not responsible enough to stay with you all these years then he is not responsible enough to keep your son. do what YOU think is the best for your son. dont listen to others. if you have doubts then dont do it. always listen to your inner self.
2006-08-22 08:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's 14, why wouldn't he have a say? Unless, he's unruly ... is that why he's not living with you?
Usually 14-year-olds are capable of making such decisions.
2006-08-22 09:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no you've done all the work now he wants him after the hard part is done no and no again to that idea.
2006-08-22 08:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no at least give him a year
2006-08-22 08:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HELL NO.you dont know what that man can do
2006-08-22 12:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gemini Baebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he would be better off with him, than with you.
2006-08-22 09:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY
2006-08-22 09:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by marcia t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋