i had a great relationship with someone ,at least thats wat i thought but then she started disapering without even calling or saying why.i think shes cheating on me but when i ask she always says no and gives me excuses about her job,family,etc.what do u think is most likely the truth?
2006-08-22 08:39:48 · 34 answers · asked by ghettofabulous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that she's doing something that she don't want you to know. Maybe sometimes leaving her alone will make it better.
2006-08-22 08:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by shoeswat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what she's doing, the fact is nobody who cares about someone "disappears" for long periods of time without thinking. If you really care about someone, you want to talk to them, be with them, etc. You would not be ok with not having contact for a while at a time, and neither should they. Sorry, this relationship is pointless.
2006-08-22 08:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's necessarily cheating on you. I just think that she is not as emotionally involved with you.
Like most unrequited love, she is trying to distance herself rather than talking to you about it and hurting your feelings. It's actually a cowardly way out, but it's the easiest.
Just open yourself up to find someone else. Take your time and enjoy yourself. Ms. Wonderful will show up eventually.
2006-08-22 08:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was lying. If someone you cared about, that you were dating just up and stopped talking to you, something either had to have happened pretty seriously in order for her to cut off all contact. You need to talk and be firm to get your answers. Only you can make the choice in the end, just make sure you come at it from all angles before you make a decision. good luck
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2016-12-14 09:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not have the respect to call you once in a while to let you know she is ok then she will not respect you enough to tell you the truth. Move on you deserve better.
2006-08-22 08:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel that u had 'great relationship' with someone then the probability that the other person doenst feel similar love is less. she may have had "commitment" issues with u ..either she wants commitment or maybe she felt you will not give that to her.
whatever it is..talk to her and see. if u feel its excuses then probe more...and then decide if u want to put up with this hide and seek.its emotionally draining and not really worth it.
2006-08-22 09:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by dsnmstis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who went through this exact situation.I felt like my boyfried was cheating and I asked him over and over and he denied it.Well dumb me 6 months later I caught him redhanded he had been cheating since the day we met.If you suspect somethings going on it probaly is.Your gut is usually right.
2006-08-22 08:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by katzgto67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may have had an affair, or maybe it is work or family, or just that she has a medical condition and doesn't want you to know, its hard to say, but my question to you is how come your not living together or more closer in the relationship
2006-08-22 08:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she does not want to go out with you anymore but lacks the courage to tell you. If you care about her ask her what's going on and why she is doing what she is doing. Tell her that you are confused by her actions.
2006-08-22 08:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. You do deserve honesty. Tell her that next time she is going to just disappear she needs to tell you first so you don't worry. I'm thinking that she may be cheating. If she continues to do it, it may be time to say good bye.
2006-08-22 08:45:55 · answer #11 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋