I broke up wit my ex 7 months ago cuz of some misunderstanding. I went out wit someone else and now i realized that i still loved my ex. Recently, we cleared up all the misunderstanding we had before and i really wanted to get back wit him. For the reason that i went out with someone else, he does not seem to want to get back. What can I do? Please help. I feel like he's the only that can luv me and understand me. I desperately need some advice and help.
2006-08-22 08:28:04 · 14 answers · asked by Lily D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cheated on him - you don't deserve him. Just move on.
2006-08-22 08:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. stay away...Why are you puting so much into your past when there are tons of guys waiting or you. You'l have new happy memeories with someone that will appreciate you just the same if not more. Just remeber what you did wrong and what you did right from the last relationship with your ex and bring it into the new one. The good aspects that is. Start evolving instead of falling back in the primordial ooz of broken relationships and dreams. You have been warned.
2006-08-22 15:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to get him back may not be in your best interest. If he is not ready to come back you, give him the grace of time to come to grips with your going out with someone else-it probably changed the dynamics of your relationship. Only time can heal such things.
2006-08-22 15:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become really close friends first. Start hanging out and talking a lot. Then maybe he will realize he wants you back too.
2006-08-22 15:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by mommylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mess up by walking out of his life and seeing some one else so quickly
what u have to do is apologized confess ur love for him and be his friend and be there for him
look up on google how to salvage ur relationship u will get lots of information
but remember dont degrade ur self it will make u less attractive
2006-08-22 15:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything. If he was meant for you... he will come back. If not... so be it. Meantime, move on with your life. The key to all of this is patience.
2006-08-22 15:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by RotcehZepol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared and anxious. He does not want to be dropped again. You need to be as open about this fact as you can, and try to understand his position.
2006-08-22 15:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out as friends first, maybe you can get back 2gether, just slowly.
2006-08-22 15:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by I love money 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lie. He's thinking you had sex with someone else. So tell him NO. It's none of his business anyhow. Also tell him on the entire date with the other guy you were thinking of only him.
2006-08-22 15:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should of thought of that before you broke up with him and went out with someone else.. He probly don't trust you now...
2006-08-22 15:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how he feels. i got broken up with in december... and im in love with her, we both had relationships since... but she doesnt like me, so... me and you - were pretty much screwed, we can only sit and wait and wait and hope that things change in our favor.
2006-08-22 15:35:21 · answer #11 · answered by Brendan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋