I have not spoke to my boyfriend in 2 weeks and when I do finally speak to him he say he was busy. I know that he is having problems in his household but I cant be there if he dont allow me to. My mind is telling me to go on but my heart is there and it is telling me ride it out what should I do??
2006-08-22 08:26:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that even though he is busy you will be there for him. If he continues to act this way find someone who will treat you better.
2006-08-22 08:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Busy? Thats it? A man that is with you should be able to explain himself better than, I was busy! If he is having problems at home and that isn't code for Im cheating on you. Then make sure to let him know that you are there for him. Be persistent with love and tell him no matter what is going on, you can understand and he can open up to you. But two weeks without a phone call or anything? that is a little extreme...If he means something to you, hold on but move on to a man that will at least effing call you to tell you there is a problem and he will be ex-communico for a while. You deserve better, remember that.
2006-08-22 15:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by no one important 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know. If your heart is still with him then you need to make a point to tell him that this is really bugging you and that you want to help him out. He cant keep shutting you down. Let him know that you are feeling abandoned and that it is hurting you as well. Maybe this will open his eyes, be supportive but firm. Tell him you love him but cant go on if it keeps going on like this.
2006-08-22 15:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boo you have to move on you cant give yourself 100% and not get the same in return. Things happen for a reason and this experience is most likely getting you ready for the next
2006-08-22 15:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I've been there guys don't want to let us in and when they do its stupid stuff that they talk to us about don't wait it out move on u deserve much better than that. U deserve someone who will listen to u and let u in to help me figure out his probs together as a team. Good luck. I know it will take some time but u can do it.
2006-08-22 15:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't already know this...men aren't as open about their feelings as women are...they tend to isolate themselves or do something "crazy" or "not so crazy" to get their minds off of whatever is really bothering them...the real question is do you have the energy to stick around and ride this out with him or are you through with him...this may not be the last time he does this or should i say reacts like this...
2006-08-22 15:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should just give him a little space and when he is ready to tell u whats going on u can be there for him, but don't pressure him that will make him pull away more.
2006-08-22 15:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I keep telling people to just be patient.I'm dealing with close to the same thing.Give him time to get things together and if he comes back it's his choice not like your forcing him.Be patient.But if not and you move on don't look back and say I wish I would have waited.
2006-08-22 15:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space that he is desperately seeking but u won't allow just let him know that u r there for him and that u will listen if he needs to talk usually when people don't call they either moved on or they don't want to be bothered i say give him air
2006-08-22 15:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for him you should stick around and at least see if there is anything you can do, if he doesn't want you there then the only thing you can do is move on.
2006-08-22 15:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋