I was practically runed down by a man. He wanted to take me out and even included my daughter. I have been invited to his house and met his kids and friends. Its been two months since we have been doing this thing and we have only reached 2nd base. We have good times together and talk of moving to the next level is always a constant thing. Who makes that move me or him??? i am slowly loosing my mind waiting!!!
2006-08-22 08:18:21 · 17 answers · asked by Khostile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a similar situation. I am just enjoying the relationship. Sometimes, it is not the right time. There is no rush right now, is there? The other option would be to ask the question straight out. Where are we going with this relationship? What is the next step? Is there a time frame? We would probably be surprised to find out that they have just as much anxiety as we do about the relationship with the person we love.
2006-08-22 09:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "runed down"? The only thing I can think of is being run over by him when he's driving a car!
As to the next step - if you feel comfortable going further, then the next time you're making out and the situation is right, make the next move. Just be sure you bring some sort of contraceptive.
2006-08-22 08:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months sounds pretty soon to move past 2nd base to me, but to answer your question:
It sounds like you have talked about it. Have you asked if he has any problems going further?
He should make those moves, but may 1) be acting the gentleman and not wanting to force you, or 2) not be ready and just going as far as he wants despite how you feel.
Sexual compatibility is important. If you guys are on different pages there it may be a deal-breaker. Talk it over with him (tactfully, but explicitly).
2006-08-22 08:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to move to the next level then why not make a move yourself? If you are tired of waiting then I would say action would be the answer.
2006-08-22 08:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by jimmycricket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to take his time and make sure everything is right. He may feel you are the one and not want to ruin it by seeming over anxious. Try talking to him to tell him how you feel and that you are ready to make the next step. From what I read into your words he cares for you and doesn't what to lose you by pushing into something he feels you may not be ready for. Talk to him is the only way for him to know what you are feeling and it's the only way for him to communicate to you what he's feeling. Good luck.
2006-08-22 08:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by carolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ran to first, then what lead to second? I don't know whether it's your turn to go to third or not.
Everyone knows the best sex is usually slow at first then gradually building (but of COURSE variety is key there)...he's taking starting slow to the big picture, isn't he?
2006-08-22 08:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, if that is what you want....make the move, be tough know what you want..and take it. If he does not respond, you might want to look elsewhere, maybe a red flag for the future.
2006-08-22 08:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by James O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is trying to take it slowly, he is probably a nice guy. You on the other hand, sound like a *****. You probably don't deserve him.
2006-08-22 08:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have something made himn stop, you might need to push alittle but he needs to pick up and start take care of you and stop the head game and tell you how he feels about you
2006-08-22 08:27:19 · answer #10 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋