hes mega stressed but hasnt been near me in almost 3 months although i found he was watching "naughty channels". hes 44 im 21, come on a girl has needs!
2006-08-22 08:16:38 · 32 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just force the issue.
Next time you're in bed together, just pull back the covers and start masturbating. Do it slow and sexy. After he gets aroused, and he will, ask him if he'd like to watch or help.
Or, draw a hot bath, take off your clothes, go in the living room, lead him by the hand to the tub. Climb in with him. Wash each other. Ask him to shave your legs, or something else. When you get out of the tub, plant those clean lips on his face.
Or, when he's asleep, take him your mouth softly and make him hard. When he wakes up, climb on.
Or, call him on his cell phone when you know he's on his way home. Say, "I was just thinking of you and now I'm all wet. What are you going to do about that?"
However you decide to start it, remind him that you love him and desire him all the time no matter what else is going on in his life.
Next day, plan a "togetherness" outing with time for talking and smooching.
2006-08-22 08:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok I was in a relationship with someone older than I and the age difference is mostly the problem. You are at your sexual peak...he is going down hill sweetie, It probably has nothing to do with not being attracted to you, it is probably because he is aging or cheating. I have learned that if a man isnt doing you, he's probably doing someone else. Not always the case though. Most men watch porn no matter what. Even if they aren't having sex with you, it is still on their minds. You are so young sweetie, Im 21 too..you need to find a man that can match your sexual needs and that is better suited for someone your age. Ask him straight up if he is cheating, if he is a good man and mature he will answer you honestly. Gauge his reaction, if he stutters, is slow to respond, or gets enraged thats a surefire way that he is, but if he is calm, collected and he can look you in the eye then he is telling the truth. At 44, he should be a man and be honest. Good luck
2006-08-22 08:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by no one important 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't always need a womens P.O.V this is what you do let him think your asleep and walk in on him while he's watching the flick and initiate a sexual vibe go to him and start giving him head right there on the spot and tell him to keep watching the tv when your finished just go back in the room a lie down don't worry he'll come. Another is to wear something really sexy something that he can almost see through walk around the house ocassionally bending or squating then go in the room and show yourself some attention and if he comes in you keep playin with yourself don't let him join in to quick make him wait and it doesn't hurt to cook with a little ginseng that helps the hormones get in line.
2006-08-22 08:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by misterware2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stress doesn't seem to be holding back the sex drive if he is on the 'naughty channels' Have you talked to him and asked why isn't he showing his love? Another thing to consider for you own answers is to pull out all the stops, sexy night, sexy lingerie, candles , soft music, maybe a romantic dinner and a backrub to 'relieve all that stress'....no reason for a no and see what happens, then go from there. You may have your answers by the response alone....
2006-08-22 08:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by awwwnry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes home from work be wearing something naughty and just seduce him! Maybe even watch the naughty channels with him that always works for me!
2006-08-22 08:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 44? He can't keep up sounds like u need a younger model. I am singel by the way and am 19 so i think i can keep up with ur needs
2006-08-22 09:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys his age often go through periods where mental exhaustion outweighs the benefits of sex. It's not that he doesn't find you attractive, he's just getting himself off so he doesn't feel obliged to do anything to you-- it's too tiring for him. You shouldn't have to put up with this at your age. Sex is important.
Unless you're convinced that this geezer is the one for you forever, get out and find a guy your age.
2006-08-22 08:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the naughty channels and see what the girls are wearing, then try it. if you can join him the better, gets both of turned on at the same time.
2006-08-22 08:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 44 you're 21 and he's refusing you. Ha! Sorry.
You should be able to turn him on pretty easily I'd think.
2006-08-22 08:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book, "He's Just Not That Into You" You can
find it at the library. He is too old for you anyway. Guys
like that fantacize about young bodies but their bodies
are a lot older and it almost seems like they are with
a child.
2006-08-22 08:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by judy f 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋