This guy in my class likes me and is constantly around me and annoying me. What can I do or say to get him to leave me alone?
2006-08-22 08:14:30 · 34 answers · asked by selinasouthard2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I've mentioned other boys, told him to leave me alone, I don't have a boyfriend to solve the problem and it seems like whatever I say it dosen't work, however I wish I knew someone gay so I could set them up since he is Bi
2006-08-24 08:37:26 · update #1
Just tell him flat out that you are not interested and to leave you alone.
2006-08-22 08:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetheart, I don't know how old you are but I had this happen to me all the time in jr high and high school. First, try to be totally honest, not mean. Tell him straight up, " Listen, your a nice guy but I am not interested, please leave me alone" and if that doesn't work, then maybe tell a teacher or someone in charge that he is bothering you. OR you can be a total ***** and punch him in the nuts and tell him not to come around anymore or you will file a sexual harassment lawsuit against him and his family...but I don't think that will fly depends on how old you are.
2006-08-22 08:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by no one important 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. If you're not into him, try and let him down easy. For example: 'Umm, sorry (whatever his name is) I'm not interested, but I'm sure there's a girl out there for you.' Be sure to smile sweetly.
2. If he's persistent with it, then you have to be persistent too. Whichever way you handle a situation, let that be it.
3. If it's a pervert of some sort, get pepper spray or something to let him know you mean business. Whatever you do, don't let him touch you.
4. If he's your ex, tell him he doesn't deserve you, even if he does deserve you, tell him he doesn't.
5. If it's a guy you've lost interest in, then trust me, he'll lose interest too.
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2006-08-22 08:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him politely that your not interested and that he must leave you alone becouse you already have an boyfriend! If he knows you are lying then you have a problem. Tell one of your friends, like a boy whose HUGE, to tell the guy to stop bother you.
Thats all I can think about.
Nice Giving you an awnser!
2006-08-22 08:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bikermice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go away butthead should cover it or maybe whatever it is you want you aren't getting it here so go look somewhere else or go away kid you bother me but after that say NOTHING to him. If he gets attention from you, even if its bad attention he'll continue being annoying. After you tell him to leave you alone in whatever way you choose to do that behave as if he doesn't exist, that will stop him from getting any kind of pay off for his annoying behavior and that is what will really make him stop.
2006-08-22 08:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply put, tell him. If you want to be decent about it try to maturely explain to him that his presence makes you uncomfortable. Tell him flat out that he has no chance with you but that you're flattered by his advances. Tell him that he is definitely not your type and that he should probably try talking to someone else.
If you don't care about his perception of you, just be mean and bitchy with him and he'll get the point.
If all else fails: restraining order.
2006-08-22 08:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by larceny'sghost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you dnt really need to get annoyed..You should be happy since people find you hot and they wanna be with you..It's like some givin you compliments..Use it as a motivator then bein annoyed about it..It's the way you look at it..
2006-08-22 08:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about your toenail collection OH WAIT! That only works for girls.... :-P Guys will dig a new babe after around 6 months. They'll be obsessed with one girl for a while, but then they will change their thought process soon enough. Just ignore him or if you are really desparate, play matchmaker. IDK, just do what you think is best and the guy will get over you.
2006-08-22 08:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Nigel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are dense. If it continues to be a problem after you've talked to him, tell your principal or a guy teacher you respect. He can help straighten the guy out.
2006-08-22 08:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and got the t-shirt. I suggest you leave the country. Nothing else worked for me
2006-08-22 08:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by brandyfizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋