When i left for vacation everything was fine then when i got home he told me that he doesnt want to call me all the time and that i should call him more. Also he doesnt ever tell me he misses me anymore and when we hang out it has ot be with ohter people. Am i just being paranoid or should i have somethign to worry about?
2006-08-22 08:13:40 · 13 answers · asked by wags8668 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, you have the "too much around each other" problem.
Go spend some time with other friends and give him a month off. If he doesn't call you pleading for attention, move on to some appreciative man (like myself) and dump the looser.
If he comes on hands and knees with a box of chocolates and roses (by the way, take a pic if you see him pull that one off!) to your DOORSTEP, it means he's no longer going to treat you like one.
2006-08-22 08:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget approximately him… If he's this paranoid now, what variety of destiny could you likely have? All which will ensue is that he will grow to be overly possessive, obsessive then abusive and by ability of status by ability of him you would be permitting him to accomplish that. Then sometime all you will prefer to do is sell off him besides. save your self a lot of time and heartache. bypass out and locate your one in a million. have self belief it or no longer there are some people nonetheless around you only could look slightly nearer to establish what’s interior.
2016-11-05 09:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by overbay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are heading for murky waters dear. He may very well feel like he is unappreciated by you. Try doing something nice for him, like making a card or calling him or taking him to movie or something. If he still acts icy...it may be that this ship has sailed, let it go and move on. Best of luck!
2006-08-22 08:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't blame him for him wanting you to call more. he probably wants to feel like you like him just as much as he likes you. he wants it to be equal. all the rest of the things could easily just be in your head but if your worried then i think you should definitly talk to him. realationships are only good if you can talk to the person your with. just ask him if anythings wrong, have a talk. don't make it to serious at first but if it gets to that point it's ok. just talk to him.
2006-08-22 08:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to worry about it. Merely enjoy who you are.
Doesnt sound as tho he's interested. And he doesnt have the guts to be up front with you. Why torture yourself. He's certainly not worth your time.
2006-08-22 08:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is something more going on- you need to talk to him about it and if he doesn't want to spend time with you- then tell him goodbye
2006-08-22 08:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next, stop wasting time there are millions of guys that would rather be with you, and not play games.
2006-08-22 08:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Toma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was looking while you were gone? I wouldn't count on THIS lasting too much longer.
2006-08-22 08:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him babe, he must have indulge with some one else in your absense, It shows he was not in love with you, only he might be using you, then why to bother for him.
2006-08-22 08:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him at all, let him reach out to you. you'll probably want to mentally start to get over him and move on.
2006-08-22 08:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋