I think she might be interested in me and if she is she is definitelly playing hard to get. Should I ask her if she likes me or should I keep playing her game?
many thanks
2006-08-22 08:10:38 · 22 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her directly and if she does not admit or play games send her to the hell because she is a kid not a girl or a woman.
2006-08-22 08:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT PLAY THE GAMES!!! You play the games and she has already won. You have to make it clear that you are not going to go through with it. Be very blunt with her and ask her directly. "Hey are you playing games, or do you like me? Because if you like me let's cut the chase and let hang out, if not let me know so I can give my energy to someone that doesn't mess around sweetie..." Sometime to that effect. This kind of direct questioning places you in charge and puts her on the spot to either step up to the plate or keep walking. It also lets her know that you're a man that knows what he wants, and in self-confident enough to let her know that you want a serious woman instead of a girl. Good luck buddy...
2006-08-22 08:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think ask her out for sure! I am in a similar situation - I like someone but feel it is too risky to make the first move so I would love for him to ask me out but he's probably thinking the same as you. Even in this day and age I think some women still like the man to take initiative. I am all for equality of the sexes but it doesn't half complicate things when it comes to the dating game! I say ask her out as she's probably too shy to ask you. Anyway, whats the worst that can happen - if she says no then you can begin to forget about her and move on.
2006-08-22 08:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it type of sounds like she has lost interest in you. If she became nevertheless in contact, she'd be providing you with lengthy solutions and contacting you back. i imagine this woman has replaced her ideas about you. What do you should do? ignore about her for a short even as. After some days, textual content her back and ask her to satisfy you at someplace (make it casuel and straightforward... something like: "hey, wanna flow see the best action picture over their? there's a large-sized popcorn along with your call on it!" this is not any stress and hard to decline too, so that you'll locate out for particular.
2016-12-01 00:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by lovelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, An age would be good here but going on what i know. Women like to play games when it comes to men, and being a woman myself i've got to say thats ok, but not for too long though. there's no point you hanging around for her to turn round and say no dont want to be more than friends its not fair on you, and thats exactally what gives men a bad rep. Be brave and ask her, the worse she can say is no, but at the end of the day you'll know when you stand. hope it works out for you.x
2006-08-22 08:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely dont play her game - why should you, I mean shes messing with your confidence and self-respect. Id just be honest with her and ask her straight what the score is, and if its not in your favour then move on - your phone will probably ring a week later anyway...
2006-08-22 09:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by HelpMeOut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to find out for sure flush her out by acting like you are not interested at all,she will have to show her hand soon or think she has lost you also,one game is as good as the other,play hard.
2006-08-22 08:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by deerwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well if u ask her then u would be getting no were and if she is not playing hard to get and just doesn't want u ( yes this is possible) then back off
2006-08-22 08:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tiny Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her and she does than u play the game
2006-08-22 08:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by fame4000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, women that play hard to get are usually very hard to live with. Do yourself a favor and find a girl that drools all over you. Unfair lesson in life: Always date someone who likes you better than you like them. (You also have to like them a lot too.)
2006-08-22 08:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep playing for like 2 more weeks and then make a big move, like ask her out somewhere. if she denies, then shes not interested! good luck!
2006-08-22 08:17:59 · answer #11 · answered by laughjustalittle16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋