2006-08-22 08:10:14 · 13 answers · asked by Magica! Star 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
well it depends dear........................... some are really good and caring .....but ......if they have their own children then they can be mean
2006-08-22 08:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the reason that alot of step children say that their step mom is mean is because they do not view that person as a parent or even an authority figure in their lives. They resent being told what to do by someone who is not their parent.
My question would be are all step kids spoiled, disrespectful brats?
2006-08-22 21:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. some step-mothers can be the best thing that ever happened to her step-children. If you are concerned about being mean (or your step-mom being mean) then you should think about what you could have ended up with.
2006-08-22 15:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stepmother of an 8 yr old and I don't think i am mean i love that girl like she is mine and I have a stepfather and he was great as a child i thought he was mean but I look back on that I was really bad to him i treated him horrible and he was actually nicer than i deserved. so i think it depends on the child and the step parent. how much they both want to put in to the relationship
2006-08-22 15:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by welchs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one, she's not mean, although i don't live with her!
I had a physco step dad, i'm talking, he was a physcopath, my stupid mother just wanted someone to sleep in her bed and ended up pregnant, livng through hell and finally divorced again!
Not all are horrible, some are great.
2006-08-22 15:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is. I'm a step-mother too, to two grown men. I'm not mean to them. My kids have a step-mother too and she's not mean, just really really bossy.
2006-08-22 16:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stepmother, my 18 y/o stepson and I get along great and always have. I have been his step mom for 16 years, and I love him to death.
2006-08-22 15:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Mine was firm. She was the first person to make me follow rules at home. And she forced a few manners on me. She was good to me (still is) and cared about the person I was becomming. That said, I like her lots better now than as a kid. I can see it through a parent's eyes now, and not just a kid's.
2006-08-22 15:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't know. I'm blessed enough to have two parents who are committed to each other.
2006-08-22 15:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not, at least I don't think so. But then again, my stepson and me are only 10 yrs apart....
2006-08-22 15:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by aaja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't be if i was one..though the kid/s might think i was.. sometimes depends how the kids see you i reckon..
2006-08-22 16:10:09 · answer #11 · answered by mitchbrowno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋