I stopped calling this one girl that i thought i could have had a chance with, because i met this other girl that i knew i had the chance with. We were aquantances at work and always flirted about getting together, but it never happened. Now that I'm single I thought of calling her but not sure if I caused any disolution by that. What do you girls or guys think about this?
2006-08-22 08:06:21 · 16 answers · asked by alter_ego 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its fine to call her, but you're best off not having any expectations--you haven't spoke to her in over a year and you have no idea what is happening in her life. you might want to call her and ask about her life and if things go well then towards the end of the conversation ask if you can call her back again-don't even bring up the idea of getting together in the first conversation. if she is ok with a second call and the conversation is good then consider asking her if she'd like to get together. since it has been awhile-you're better off being subtle.
2006-08-22 08:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's worth a shot. If she's not involved with anyone she might be interested in going out with you. If you don't ask, you'll never know. She may be your soul mate.
When I divorced my first husband over 20 years ago I called a man I'd been in love with back in 1970. I didn't get the response I wanted. He was engaged to be married. But I'm glad I took the chance. At least I didn't go on wondering "what if?"
2006-08-22 15:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, call her, but don't expect a date right then, talk to her a few times and then ask her out.
2006-08-22 15:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should call her. worst case is she says she's not interested but if you don't call you'll never know. and you didn't do anything wrong by stopping the talking you guys did unless you were mean about it or something. but otherwise your fine.
2006-08-22 15:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by iamsamsamiam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all!!! It may be a bit awkward at first but she could be very happy to hear from you!
2006-08-22 15:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Karina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she has any self respect she would not go out with you, but hey if she says yes then she is asking for your rejection again.
2006-08-22 15:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by j3572h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well dude, i think 1.5years is jus too much. anyway try your best to meet her first then you can have a chart before you call. goodluck
2006-08-22 15:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call her and see how it goes. might as well give it a shot.
2006-08-22 15:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Scully 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cant hurt, sometimes u gotta go for things regardless of whats "cool" or not
2006-08-22 15:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by ozzius1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her a call never know what might happen!!
2006-08-22 15:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by mommalyle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋