I just got back from a week vacation in Florida. My boyfriend just told me he was fliritng with this other girl alot and he said he kinda liked her. But he also said he wa really upset that he did and he was really sorry. I really like him but should i break up with him?? i mean if he likes another girl wont our relationship end up ruined sooner or later?
2006-08-22 08:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley010 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i forgot to say that he said he liked me more and he was being stupid but idk if i should believe him
2006-08-22 08:07:18 · update #1
Yes it will. And believe me, the years you wasted with him won't come back.
2006-08-22 08:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by DomC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all.. Relax!
Jeez... He didnt have to tell you anything. If he told you he found he had feeling for another woman, I see it as he respects you enough to let you in on that lil fact. If he didnt tell you anything then you found out you would be all pissed at him and accusing him of doing more, and the proof you would use is he didnt tell you about it. Well he told you about it, so there is most likely nothing there.
I will tell you this, if you are ready to break up with him for him being honest with you.... You have problems that you need to fix before you will be able to make any relationship work.
Please dont take offense at my answer here. I am trying to help you. It sounds like you have a good man there. WE ARE HARD TO FIND!!! He feels he can talk to you... He feels he can tell you anything. This is a good thing. He is telling you this to include you in his life. Isnt that what you want?
The truth is you are more upset with yourself than him. See we can't see life through anyone elses eyes...Only through our own. So when offered such a situation we think to ourselfs,,, What woudl I do in that situation?... Would I be fathfull? And if the answer is no then we condem the other person..... Think to yourself honestly now...isnt that what you are doing?
Just talk to him and be honest with him.
2006-08-22 08:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody says that YOU have to be exclusive. If he told you he was flirting that means he was probably kissing and fondling the other girl. Flirting is guy speak for going short of sex.
Keep your options open...If you focus only on this guy you WILL get hurt.
2006-08-22 08:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Zero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and women both flirt its just the way things go. he needs to sit down and decide if thats all it was though. if there is something more there than you shouldn't waste your time with him anymore. i've been in a relationship for over 10 years and a little innocent flirting never hurt anyone...the question is was it innocent?
2006-08-22 08:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by jaime r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU HAVE TO BREAK YOUR RELATIONSHIP.BECAUSE HE IS PLAYING WITH YOUR FEELINGS AND I THINK THIS DEPENDS ON YOU.BECAUSE HE MIGHT HAVING A AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER GIRL SO SIMPLE THING IS JUST FULL-STOP.
2006-08-22 08:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by alltimeforyou2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possible, watch out you are walking on thin ice now.
2006-08-22 08:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will ask him who he wants to be with
2006-08-22 08:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
2006-08-22 08:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is not having sex.
2006-08-24 14:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by BarbieQ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋