2006-08-22 07:57:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you are describing is not making love. It's just sex. Making love is what happens between a husband and wife, not between two people who have just met. Making love is part of an ongoing relationship. You don't have a relationship with a man on the first night. It's time men and women stopped thinking with their genitals. The world would be a much better place.
2006-08-22 08:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt recommend it. If he thinks tou are that easy he will not respect you. as a man myself i have always waited for the girl to make the first move. I think they like being in charge of the siyuation. By the 4th date or so youve had time to get to know each other a little.
2006-08-22 08:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always decide on the first night, and then talk it out with him if I decide I want to find out how sexually compatible we are or just how good a lover he is. I don't believe in wasting time. If I decide I don't wish lovemaking the first date I usually will not have a 2nd date with him.
2006-08-22 08:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens it happens, I don't know why women get judged because of that, I had sex with my boyfriend on our first date and we have been together for almost 6 years.
2006-08-22 08:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by bec3tiny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wait a couple of weeks before submitting to him.
2006-08-22 08:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by feel_n_learn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not on the first night.
2006-08-22 08:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the attraction is mutual then yes; i've done it before and still get called the next day.
2006-08-22 08:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. thats loosing you dignity... but im pretty sure a lot of girls do it.. but its just wrong.. a girl would probably have sex with a guy and not even know their name
2006-08-22 08:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think I hang around and see who asnwers yes to this ;)
2006-08-22 08:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened once, he was a horny freek. But usual I don't..
2006-08-22 08:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋