2006-08-22 07:36:39 · 7 answers · asked by hamid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes. Part of a healthy marriage is for each partner's strengths to complement each other's weaknesses. It is not unusual for men to major in objective analysis, emotionless logic and those kinds of things - it seems from your description of yourself, that is how you see your own tendencies.
While it is always dangerous to stereotype, it is also not unusual for women to major on the other end of the spectrum - to be more demonstrative about their emotions, to process things more subjectively than objectively, to lead more with their emotions, etc.
Part of a healthy, mature marriage will be for you to recognize the weaknesses in your own tendencies (which is natural, we all have them), and to fully appreciate how your wife complements and completes you in the ways she is different. The temptation for immature men is to see how their wives are different and to deem this difference as "less" or "worse".
In that sense, in a good marriage the sum is greater than the parts. But it has taken me years to understand that even to the little bit that I think I do now...
2006-08-22 07:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Does she love you? Have you two talked about religion, politics, familial obligation, children, finances, etc? She could be the best thing that ever happened to you (and you to her) or you two might be oil and water.
As long as you two are going in the same direction, are open to talking and listening (last part VERY important), and are willing to do what it takes to make the committment work, yeah, you can have a wonderfully successful marriage with a gal like that.
2006-08-22 08:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of which would be exciting....... opposite poles attracts one yet another.... in the event that they actually love, those issues would not rely in any respect... they might stay a satisfied existence.. she will learn some features from him and he can learn some features from her... If the two are very comfortable, existence would be a concern and if the two are very real looking existence wont have any relaxing, so a great combination of the two will artwork properly..... i think of she is the final pair of that guy and he's the final pair of her... Have a great day candy pal :-)
2016-12-14 09:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if you love her and she loves you, they way you think and the way she feels should not only balance the two of you out, but it just might rub off on each other. Good Luck.
2006-08-22 10:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever watched Dharma & Greg? No? Do so and you will find your answer.
2006-08-22 07:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Funny Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she'd drive you crazy
2006-08-24 07:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are a fatso?
2006-08-22 07:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋