i want so badly to talk to him and share my feelings with him and he takes it personly how do i stop this? please help me!!!!!
2006-08-22 07:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by lissaizcool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are having a communication problem. Maybe try this....
Set up ground rules....here are a few suggestions:
1. Discuss only one issue at a time...stay on topic.
2. No bringing up stuff from the past not related to the issue.
3. Be willing to hear the other side. And see it from their perspective.
4. No interupting. Use a magic wand. Whoever has the wand speaks without interuption until they turn it over to the other person.
5. Don't cloud the issue with little stuff....get to the heart of the matter.
6. No swearing or raising your voice. Yelling doesn't get you heard. Speak softly and sweetly cause you never know when you might have to eat your words.
7. When you get the wand....always start the conversation with "the reason I'm about to say this is to make our relationship stronger babe". Always start with this phrase.....never forget!!
Give it a try....it's better than what your currently doing! And remember....a calm conversation with a sincere desire to find a solution can overcome just about anything. Good luck!
2006-08-22 07:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 15:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait awhile before talking to him. If he cries when you talk to him then the only way to stop that is not to talk to him. You can't help the way someone feels.
2006-08-22 07:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel and both of you stop being damn it cry babies get over and it and just say how you guys feel before you end up crying some more
2006-08-22 07:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept the fact that he is emotional and let him cry.
The real question should be why are you two both so upset that you are both crying? is this relationship really working out?
2006-08-22 07:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an intimate relationship, i envy it. your luckier than u think
2006-08-22 07:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Phil-A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU both belong together..you Crybabies....
2006-08-22 07:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋